imo it doesn't matter who is taking advantage of whom. The point being 
that the more experienced one has a duty to themselves if nothing 
else, to resist both their urge to exploit the situation, and to 
resist the less experienced person's urge to exploit the situation.

In any situation when that doesn't occur, it definitely corrupts the 
relationship between the teacher/student, parent/child, 
master/follower. 

I am not judging in terms of sex, just in terms of an unequal power 
relationship. It applies to any activity, not just sex exclusively.

--- In [email protected], Don <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> How can you tell who is "taking advantage" of whom? Seems to me when 
it
> comes to intimate behaviors if you are in neither head of the 
involved
> persons, you really don't know what is going on... unless there is 
obvious
> force against one's will. People are so obsessed with judging when it
> comes to sex..... he's too old for her, he's taking advantage of her,
> she's only in it for the money, she's a slut, he's a 
philanderer..... the
> list goes on but really who knows and why should anyone care???????




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