On Jun 19, 2005, at 2:45 PM, Rick Archer wrote:
But are all adults created equal? Bill and Monica?
Such an attitude really presupposes that women who are younger are automatically less capable of making rational decisions. In effect, it's very condescending. As I recall, it was Monica who initiated the whole thing. That doesn't excuse Bill's inappropriate actions, if indeed they were. But a better question might be to ask *why* young women often seek out relationships with older men or men in power. The answers, whatever they are, are complex, and it does little good to simply assign blame to one or the other. Our society clearly undervalues young women big-time, and sets them up for these situations.
Gurus in their mid-50’s and women in their early 20’s? Is it OK for men in positions of power and authority to use that power and authority to have relationships that would not occur if they were ordinary guys?
You don't know that--and who's really ordinary anyway? That's one of the big problems with putting someone on a pedestal--much farther to fall.
Especially if those relationships conflict with their publicly-stated lifestyle (marriage – Bill, or monkhood – MMY)? Is it OK if those relationships compromise their ability to perform their jobs, or is that their business? On this last question, I’m inclined to say it’s their business, but it’s the right of those who elected them or follow them to react as they see fit.
Sure, no argument with your last statement.
