--- In [email protected], "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > --- In [email protected], "Jeff Fischer" > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > <snip> > > When peolple push each other's buttons *real* communication ceases. > > Communication and the resultant "understanding" is the only hope > > we've got. > > In my experience and observation, hostility > isn't necessarily in and of itself a barrier > to communication. > > What *is* a barrier to communication is > dishonesty.
I understand. Negotiators have to deal with this all the time. My point is when a "button" is pushed (ie name calling, "get lost" etc) the hope of any resolution becomes more distant. Find a reality you can both agree with (if possible) and build from there. Jeff To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
