--- In [email protected], "Rick Archer" <r...@...> wrote:
>
> On Behalf Of nablusoss1008
> >  
> > > --- shempmcgurk wrote:
> > > 
> > > No, because I still want to remain anonymous here on FFL.
> > 
> > I know the identities of many anonymous people here and 
> > am good at keeping them secret. 
> >
> > Is that so ? At least your "friend", 
> 
> He is my friend.
> > 
> > the fellow with earpieces looking very gay 
> 
> you have a problem with that?
>
> > and drugged-out 
> 
> he doesn't take drugs.
> 
> > from the pictures the Turq posted here, Alex Stanley is 
> > doing what he can to proove you wrong.
> > Where have you been, did you not read what that fool 
> > posted here a couple of days ago?
> 
> I believe I did. He said, correctly, that you can tell 
> where a person is, roughly, by their IP address, which 
> you can see in the header info of their post. It has 
> always been that way. What's your point?

Rick,

It occurred to me this morning, as I brewed
myself a coffee and settled in to read FFL,
that there is an analogy that seems to fairly
accurately describe folks here who are either
1) overly paranoid about concealing their 
identity, or 2) overly compulsive about trying
to control or "spin" their image -- what other
people think of them.

That analogy is that they're like people who
are deathly afraid of shadows, but who live in
a room full of light bulbs. One of those light
bulbs goes on, casts a shadow of *them* onto
the wall, and they react in terror. They scream
in fear and yell and blame the light for their
own fear of their own shadow.

In the case of people trying to protect their
anonymity, as I've said before, there are good
reasons to do so. One could be concerned about
reprisals from the TM movement, or be concerned
that being known as a TMer might hurt their 
business. 

There are also bad reasons for anonymity, such
as a *continued* history of abuse of others, 
including actual reprisals and threats of actual
violence against them, performed from under the
cover of an ever-changing series of screen names.
What these people (and there are very few of them
on FFL, and all obviously not quite "all there"
mentally) don't seem to realize is that according
to the Patriot Act, in America threatening some-
one physically over the Internet gets them classed
as a terrorist, and in the Bush era could have
guaranteed them a one-way ticket to Guantanamo. 
Now, under Obama, such threats would probably 
only land them in a local jail.

As for the compulsion to "spin" one's projected 
image, and to repetitively react to any perception 
of them that doesn't match their projected image,
well that's a more interesting phenomenon IMO.

On a spiritual level, it is clearly attachment to
self. The self is what "casts a shadow." The light
is what *creates* the shadow, attempting to pass
through it as the selflessness that light knows it
really is, but finding "substance" -- samskaras, ego,
beliefs, attachments. All of these things cast a 
shadow. And the self doesn't *LIKE* the shadow-
selves that light projects of them, so it reacts
with fear and anger and a compulsion to 1) demonize
the light, and 2) claim that "That shadow isn't me.
Only *I* -- the way *I* present myself -- am me."

The fascinating thing is that none of the ways that
these selves-attached-to-their-selves present them-
selves are "them," either. Only Self is really "them,"
and Self doesn't cast a shadow.

I'm all for anonymity on this forum unless it is used
to hide abuse. I'm less for the compulsive "spinning"
of one's shadow to pretend it isn't one's own. We're
all "light bulbs" on this forum, and we all cast our
own light. And we all cast our own shadows. If we're
wise, we *learn* from those shadows...we don't fear 
them and curse the light that projected them.



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