Re: [FairfieldLife] Vaj tries to blame TM for his mental ilnesses'

Sun, 10 Jul 2005 11:13:46 -0700

Yeah, funny. That's not Vaj.
As for the quote, I don't see it.
 
 
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From: shukra69
Sent: Sunday, July 10, 2005 11:59 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Vaj tries to blame TM for his mental ilnesses'

describes himself as "evangelical" "orthodox" "Catholic" "traditionalist"
Christian":
http://www.shunyata.net/new/home.htm


I'm an 18 year veteran of the Transcendental Meditation movement. I
was recruited into this destructive cult in 1974. I'd taken a year off
of college between my junior and senior years. I was dissatisfied with
my major, feeling confused and without clear goals. I decided to work
for a
year, hoping to get my future into sharper focus. One day during my
"sabbatical" from college, I saw a poster with Maharishi's picture on
it, advertising a free introductory lecture on the stress releasing
benefits of Transcendental Meditation. I attended the lecture,
interested to find out if TM could supply a natural way tap into the
mental potential I was convinced I wasn't taking full advantage of. I
was also hoping it would help me relax.

The teacher was persuasive, using charts and graphs to "prove"
scientifically that TM increased intelligence, reduced stress, and
expanded human potential. This was exactly what I wanted, and I signed
up to learn the technique as soon as possible. 

I experienced immediate benefits from practicing the TM technique. It
relaxed me, sharpened my sensory awareness, improved my memory, and gave
me a deep, contented feeling I'd never experienced in my entire life. I
was hooked! But I remember being disturbed when the series of follow-up
lectures, required for learning the technique, involved being taught a
philosophy that was foreign to me. It was presented as the absolute
truth. Critical questions were answered with pat replies. I had
resistance to this information about cosmic consciousness, states of
enlightenment, etc. but my critical thinking mechanisms had been
weakened because of the profound effect the Transcendental Meditation
technique was having on me. I remember a clear point when my defenses
against it suddenly crashed, and I no longer resisted absorbing the
"knowledge." I'd snapped.

After practicing the TM technique on my own for 3 years, the TM movement
came out with an advanced technique called the TM Sidhi program, or the
levitation technique. It was the hottest new thing in the movement.
Everyone wanted to learn how to "fly." I was so eager to learn, I quit
my job, packed up all my things, and moved to Fairfield, Iowa, the home
of Maharishi International University (MIU). MIU is an accredited
university, with the TM philosophy forming the basis for every
discipline taught there. They had just started a volunteer staff
program, whereby you would work for a year in exchange for getting the
TM Sidhi program, which cost $3000 at the time. I jumped at the chance!
I realized many years later that I'd been subjected to mind control
techniques from the very beginning of my involvement in TM, but after I
moved to MIU, the thought reform greatly intensified.

I became so indoctrinated by the TM philosophy that my touch with
reality was sharply severed. I ended up becoming extremely dependent on
the TM community, living there for the next 15 years. What drew me to
the group was a sense of belonging that I'd never experienced any other
time in my life. I had a lifestyle and framework from which to live that
was simple, upbeat, and gave my life a much needed direction. I made
many good friends in Fairfield, was given opportunities to do jobs that
in the real world would have required vocational training which I didn't
have. But in 1984, the positive aspects of my experience in the TM
community began to be overshadowed by the start of a nightmare. It began
with my first mental breakdown -- a psychotic break. I had delusions of
grandeur, I stopped sleeping, and acted inappropriately. I was picked up
by MIU security, and committed to a state mental hospital. What I didn't
realize at the time is that this would be the first of 20 psychiatric
hospitalizations that I would experience while in the TM movement.

I was diagnosed with manic depressive illness. The psychotic break was
labeled as a manic episode. Then soon after, I began suffering from
clinical depression. I was put on medication, began seeing a counselor,
but continued to experience long bouts of depression and anxiety. I'd
gone into the TM movement full of promise and potential. I'd always
excelled at jobs, and was quickly promoted to management positions. But
for the first time in my life, I was being taken aside and told that I
wasn't being productive enough on the job, and was threatened with
termination if I didn't improve.

The mood swings continued, and eventually I was being hospitalized every
3 or 4 months. My self-confidence deteriorated. And it got so bad that
for two years I had suicidal thoughts every single day. I wanted to die,
but I was afraid to kill myself. Eventually I was laid off from my job,
became homeless, finally moving into a seedy hotel room which I rented
by the week. My life had become a shambles -- a distant cry from the
success the TM movement had promised if I meditated twice day, as I had
continued to do.

I began sleeping during the day, and staying up all night reading. I
read a book on Jim Jones and the Jonestown massacre. This peaked my
interest in cults. I found the book Combatting Cult Mind Control by
Steve Hassan at the local library. As I read through the 8 criteria of a
cult, I broke out in a sweat, fear running through my entire body. I
suddenly realized that TM was a cult, and it struck me between the eyes
that I needed to get out as soon as possible.

I contacted several of the therapists and exit counselors listed in the
back of the book. They answered my many questions, and reaffirmed my
instinct to leave as soon as possible. I didn't want to lose my window
of clarity, falling back into the cult mindset and losing my nerve to
get out. So I packed up my car with all my belongings and my two dogs,
and drove out of Fairfield for good. I left behind 15 years of
friendships, the only lifestyle I'd known in my adult life, and a belief
system I'd been completely indoctrinated to embrace. Cults condition you
to be phobic about leaving the group. In my case, I was having images of
being in a terrible car accident. I thought I'd be punished by spiritual
forces for betraying Maharishi.

I moved to another town in Iowa in order to start my new life outside of
the cult. I wasn't prepared for how difficult it would be. I was excited
with my new found freedom. I was learning all over again what it meant
to live in a democracy instead of the totalitarian system I was used to
in the TM community. But I was having extreme problems with dissociation
-- an adverse side effect of all those years of meditation. I had great
difficulty fitting in socially. I made many mistakes, misreading people.
Plus I was naive, and didn't know how to protect myself from people who
would take advantage of me. After 4 months out, I was feeling very
isolated, scared, and confused. Then I had the worst psychotic episode
of my life.

I got myself to a hospital, terrified because voices inside my head were
telling me to kill myself. I felt compelled to do myself harm, and
instinctively knew I had to get to a place where I would be protected
from myself. The internal struggle was intense, and I believe a direct
result of the confusion and despair I was experiencing as a result of my
readjustment to mainstream society.

After being released from the hospital, I began doing more reading on
cult recovery. I started seeing a counselor at the mental health center,
hoping for help. She was a wonderful person, but completely
inexperienced with cult recovery. I saw her weekly for over 2 years,
becoming more and more confused and discouraged, feeling there must be
something inherently flawed in me, because the therapy wasn't working.

Then I came across Dr. Margaret Singer's new book, Cults in Our Midst. I
devoured the chapters on recovery, recognizing myself on every page. She
described my exact symptoms, making me realize I wasn't flawed, and that
I was having a normal reaction to an abnormal cult situation. I knew
then that I had to see a cult recovery specialist. There wasn't a single
one in the state of Iowa, so I decided to do everything in my power to
get to Wellspring, the only residential cult recovery treatment center
in the country.

I spent three weeks at Wellspring. I'd put on a brave front up until
that point, and didn't realize just how hopeless I'd been until I
finally got the proper help. When I was finally at the retreat, and
surrounded by people who understood the trauma I'd been experiencing, I
realized just how close I'd come to killing myself. Wellspring was a
clear turning point for me. I shudder to think where I'd be in my life
now without it. I received a good balance of individual counseling,
education, techniques to combat the dissociation, and a much needed
rest. I have a very thorough understanding of mind control now, which
has helped me stop blaming myself for what happened to me. I was
tentatively rediagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I'd
suspected for many years that I didn't have true manic depressive
illness. It doesn't occur in my family and I didn't have all the classic
symptoms.

I learned at Wellspring that psychosis can result from being traumatized
in a cult. Depression is also common among cult victims. Because so
little is known among mental health professionals about cult trauma,
victims are often misdiagnosed with manic depression, schizophrenia, or
some other mental illness. I spent 10 years of my life without getting
the proper help for the abuse I suffered in the TM movement. Getting to
Wellspring was an incredible relief for me because FINALLY I got the
help I needed.

I'm on a good road now. I have an excellent therapist locally, who is
helping me continue to challenge the cult conditioning. I wish I could
say my life turned around immediately after Wellspring, but it's still a
hard road. I was in the TM movement nearly all of my adult life. It will
take time for me to recover. But I'm less depressed now. I have less
anxiety. I haven't had a single symptom of mania. I've been on
disability benefits for 3 years, having become so debilitated by my cult
experience I could no longer work. I'm now looking for a part-time job,
and feeling more capable of working than I have in years. I still have
difficulty making friends. I developed social phobia after leaving TM
because of the enormous betrayal I felt from my cult experience. I'm
slowly able to spend more time with friends, which is a good sign.

I feel hopeful about my future, and know that I will recover completely.
I have a great deal of potential, that was thwarted and sidelined by my
time in the cult, but I'm confident now that I will find peace and
happiness in the years to come.




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