--- In [email protected], "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> --- In [email protected], "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> > --- In [email protected], "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> > > --- In [email protected], "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> > > <snip> 
> > > > Might be. Very stressful times right now and my ability to 
read 
> is 
> > > > not where it usually is.
> > > 
> > > Sorry to hear.  Sending positive thoughts your way.
> > 
> > Thanks. I BELIEVE that I'm doing better than my brother, who is 
the 
> > official caretaker of my mother currently. He's going completely 
> > bonkers, IMHO.
> 
> There should be support systems available, if you
> can get him to avail himself of them.  On the Web,
> if not accessible within the community.  Is this in
> Tucson?
> 
> I'm going through somewhat the same thing with my
> sister taking care of *our* mother.  She thinks she
> ought to be able to do it without help.  I don't
> understand that mindset.  If it were me, I'd take 
> all the help I could get.

Get all the help you can.

My mom had a massive stroke at age 77.  My dad, same age, looked 
after her until she passed away 2 1/2 years later.  It then took my 
dad at least 2 years to physically recover from the exhaustion of 
looking after her (which he gladly and lovingly did, but it still 
took a physical toll on him).




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