Part of theory behind ho'oponpono is that if we see a problem, we've helped create it. So we say the prayer first of all for ourself.
This is me doing that (-: I'm sorry Please forgive me Thank you I love you ________________________________ From: Jason <jedi_sp...@yahoo.com> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, June 14, 2012 11:10 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Hello FFL - One first needs a little humility to do that. His ego prevents him from doing that. --- Share Long <sharelong60@...> wrote: > > a little ho'oponopono might help > I'm sorry > Please forgive me > Thank you > I love you > > Dr. Len entered ward for criminally insane in Hawaii. Never saw a patient. > Went into an office with their folders. Did ho'oponopono while holding a > folder. > > After some time, whole ward improved. > > > ________________________________ > From: Jason <jedi_spock@...> > Sent: Thursday, June 14, 2012 10:43 AM > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Hello FFL - > > > > Emily, he developed all these habits while he was with that > charlatan Rama. > > Rama duped him big time, something which he is not willing > to admit and he takes out all his frustrations on others. > > --- Emily Reyn <emilymae.reyn@> wrote: > > > > Dear Barry, does it ever occur to you that you are talking about yourself? > >  Challenge yourself, man, challenge your assumptions, challenge your > > worldview, challenge your judgment patterns, challenge your > > self-righteousness.  It's not too late, Barry, there is still time. > >  You know, challenge yourself like someone in love... > > > > http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HoeauFpNzJM&feature=related > > > > > > ________________________________ > > From: turquoiseb <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> > > Sent: Thursday, June 14, 2012 2:36 AM > > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Hello FFL - > > > > > > > > The first step of this, of course, would be being > > *willing* to take such tests. This is not always > > possible, given the disorders sometimes involved. > > For example, extreme narcissists display over time > > an almost absolute *inability* to either self-assess, > > or to accept the assessments of others. That is, > > unless the assessments happen to agree with what > > the narcissists want to hear about themselves. > > > > Why is it, then, that for some on Internet forums, > > the fact that many people don't find them interesting > > enough *to* "eat" is perceived as the greatest sin? > > > > Some just throw out what they have to say and if no > > one replies or pays any attention to it -- or them -- > > they learn from that and try again. Others turn what > > they see as rejection into month-long, year-long, and > > even decade-long grudges, spending their energies > > trying (sometimes desperately) to get others (espec- > > ially those who have "rejected" them in the past) > > *to* recognize them, or respond to them, even if that > > response is in the form of an argument. Sometimes > > *especially* if that response is in the form of an > > argument. > > > > Such people strike me as a little too needy for my > > sensibilities. If they are so insecure that they only > > feel comfortable when people are paying attention to > > them, so be it, but it's going to be other people. > > I'll pass, thank you. :-) > > > > > > Indeed. And often pathetic ones. Can you *imagine* > > anything more pathetic that someone trying over and > > over and over and over to get someone to pay attention > > to them who has expressed a lack of interest in doing > > so? Or someone who seems to feed off of attracting > > groupies? Or someone whose standards are so low that > > they want to *become* groupies to someone that needy? > > > > Indeed. But it teaches both patience and compassion, > > if you just step back from it and show a little > > discrimination about which posters and which made- > > up dramas are worth getting involved with. > > >
