--- In [email protected], turquoiseb <no_reply@...> wrote:
>
> --- In [email protected], "Xenophaneros Anartaxius" <anartaxius@> 
> wrote:
> >
> > --- In [email protected], "authfriend" <authfriend@> wrote:
> > > --- In [email protected], Share Long <sharelong60@> wrote:
> > 
> > > > You began misinterpreting me on Sept 9 post 319521 and have 
> > > > continued to do so up to the present.
> > 
> > > No, no, Share, generalizations are not acceptable. They're one 
> > > of your many ways of avoiding accountability for what you say.
> > 
> > <snip>
> > 
> > There are those who see forests and those who see trees. Share 
> > seems to be a generalist, a caretaker of forests. You are far 
> > more specific, taking care of individual trees. I do not think 
> > you two will ever connect. There is something to say for each 
> > of these views, but such a divergence between them will never 
> > line up as an argument. Your thinking styles are simply not 
> > compatible. She cannot understand you, and you cannot understand 
> > her, though I suspect you feel you have Share pegged, and she 
> > feels she has you pegged. This is an opinion, not a fact. If 
> > it were a fact, it would be hopeless to continue, unless 
> > bickering is the gold standard for social congress.
> 
> That's a compassionate way of seeing things,

For one very brief moment when looking at message view I thought, and yes, I 
was amazed for a split second, I thought Barry had written, "There's a 
compassionate way of seeing things..." but then he goes on to say:

> but I see
> them a little differently. For one thing, I think that
> Share and Judy (and the rest of the pile-on persecutors
> of her) are remarkably ALIKE, in that they all 1) have
> large egos that constantly require stroking, 2) have a 
> near-constant need to attract attention, and 3) have
> a near-desperate compulsion to "get in the last word"
> or "win" arguments that don't matter to anyone else in
> the world *but* their large egos. 

I just know Barry has a small notebook of catch phrases that he opens up and 
uses all the time. Here is such an example above beginning with the numbered 
points. How many times have we all seen these hackneyed, unsubstantiated, inane 
generalities thrown at people here? And of course they are categorized in his 
notebook under the chapter,  "Overused Phrases/Definitions For The Cunts at 
FFL".
> 
> The fact that Share CARES what any of these bitches
> think of her makes her a perfect victim for their 
> assaults, and from her side SHE keeps restarting the
> arguments and thus *making* herself the victim every
> time it dies down, because that gets her attention. 

Note that Barry uses the occasional upper case word to get his (unsubstantiated 
and couch analysis) across. Adding capitals doesn't make it more true, dear 
pretend Dr.
> 
> I think it's all a little tacky, and too much like a 
> bitchy high school girl clique ( and I include both 
> Robin and Ravi as "girls" :-) to watch any of it. It's
> all too predictable at this point, and too Drama Queens
> On Parade to bother with. 

And weighing in constantly on this, what does this make you? Either a 
fascinated voyeur or the the fifth grade pimply-faced dork who just can't stay 
away from the bitchy clique? Or are you the mature poster who divvies out 
admonishments to Share (stay away, ignore them!) but who certainly can't follow 
his own advice? Mr I'm-so-bored-you-assholes-preacher man needs to take a 
better look at his own obsessions, methinks.

Let's apply this little theory of mine to the advice Barry gives Share below. 
Let's imagine he is speaking to himself and not Share here (try it, this is 
fun). Hint, where Barry says Share insert his name and where he writes "she" 
insert "he":
> 
> Share could stop it at any point by just *letting* the 
> cliquebitches have the last word and moving on to more 
> sane topics. Then when they tried to restart it again,
> just ignore them again. But she doesn't, because IMO 
> 1) she's hungry to be the focus of attention and have 
> everything be "all about her," and 2) SHE'S JUST 
> LIKE THE WOMEN PILING ONTO HER. 
> 
> All I can say is that by now my "Next" finger is almost
> worn out from zipping past anything that ANY of them say,
> and I suspect other people's are, too. I just wish the
> whole lot of them would grow up.

Where is that "next" button, I've been looking for that, my keyboard doesn't 
seem to have one. Ravi, any advice? You know so much about computers and you 
did help Emily out (I was a little jealous, by the way). 

Bye Barry, it was fun. Maybe we can do this again sometime, in fact, I am 
positive we can and will. You just can't help yourself and neither can I.
>


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