--- In [email protected], Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > --- authfriend <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > --- In [email protected], Peter > > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > --- Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > > > > It's interesting. the dark side of these people > > who > > > > try to pass themselves > > > > off as the latest guru. That tendency (to > > declare > > > > oneself a teacher or guru > > > > or "enlightened") I tend to associate with > > nothing > > > > more than a refined and > > > > clever ego. I remember how disappointed I was > > when I > > > > found out that Charlie > > > > Lutes had loved to frequent strip clubs. > > > > > > This opens a question for inquiry, and I apply > > this to > > > myself, too. Why would such behavior on Charlie's > > part > > > bother us so much? He liked to look at naked > > women. > > > Okay.... I have known other people in the past > > that I > > > respect and admire that did the same thing from > > time > > > to time. Why is it such a problem? Hmmmm. > > > > Strip clubs exploit women as sex objects. > > Yes and no. I've had several clients who were "exotic" > dancers and they absolutely hated the work, but loved > the money. What bothered them most was not their > nudity or physical contact with the men, but the > pretending to be attracted to and interested in the > men. Also the relating of the men to them as sex > objects was very wearing. > >
Recall that you only see the ones who believe/admit-to having problems. I've hung out with strippers socially. Its a very stressful, demeaning and psychologically distorting job. ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make Yahoo! your home page http://us.click.yahoo.com/dpRU5A/wUILAA/yQLSAA/JjtolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
