Here's hoping you find someone, Ravi - Perhaps invite them to join FFL, as a first or second date?? "Outwit, outplay, outlast", Survivor.
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula <chivukula.ravi@...> wrote: > > ââI was inspired to revisit match dot com today, I don't expect anything > out of it nor have too much emotional investment in it but I loved > articulating myself on what I would want. So FWIW - enjoy !!! > > > -------------------------- > OK I have revamped my profile and hope to make hay (find love) while the > sun shines (my subscription stays current). > > The foremost quality that I would like in my partner is one who is on a > journey to self-knowledge. Someone who is always willing to examine all > modalities - whether it be religion, science or psychology, willing to to > be on a quest for self-inquiry, self-discovery, self-exploration. > > Willing to go as far as the intellect can go, yet retain the love, sense of > joy and wonder, curiosity about life. Not let any belief - be it religion > or science constrain their self-expression, self-freedom and deprive > themselves from this wonder, awe and innocence. Understands the paradox of > the guilt, the burden a loving, creative person feels, this existential > despair yet retaining the love, the joy, the vulnerability. > > Didn't Jesus say - the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to the childlike? I'm sure > that's what he was referring to. Didn't Einstein regret spending his whole > life trying to de-mystify the Universe? > > Someone who strives to be emotionally, psychologically intelligent, to > achieve emotional, psychological sophistication. > > Understands that life is too dynamic, truth is dynamic to be wrapped into > beliefs even it be values such as peace, non-violence, humility not that > they wouldn't be peaceful or humble. An authentic expression of anger, > especially in a woman, is more beautiful than an inauthentic laugh, > authentic arrogance more beautiful than pseudo humility. Understands that > conflict leads to growth and is not conflict-averse. > > Someone who is socially very liberal, reaches out to others with love and > compassion and understands the values of responsibility and accountability > for oneself, morality, ethics for oneself not as a curve-ball, fastball to > judge, condemn others or wallow in hatred like conservatives. > > Someone who is an INFJ or even ISFJ on Myers-Brigss Type Indicator and has > lots of 6's and 9's on the Enneagram. > > Perhaps what I have said finds an intuitive resonance with you? You find > this journey as I do? As exciting as a trip to Peru? Or Paris? Or the > cruise to Bahamas? > > If not I hope I have at least entertained you. Perhaps I evoked the > feelings of pity and sympathy for my naivete, my hopeless idealism, > romanticism? Perhaps foreseeing a life of loneliness for me? No worries - I > may be a hopeless romantic, my heart may have deceived me several times in > the past but I have learned the art of indulging in the fantasies fueled by > my hopeless romanticism yet not let myself veer too far away from reality. > I am a laid-back, contented person so I would rather indulge and wallow in > my fantasy than cause misery and pain to myself and a potential partner by > making a wrong choice. > > Now coming to the rest - as you may have already guessed I watch too many > romantic comedies, sentimental tearjerker dramas on Netflix, love books, > love reading religion, philosophy (Nope - I'm not a therapist or > psychologist or have a degree in Philosophy, I actually have a Science > degree). > > I love the beach, the sunsets, the crescent and the full moons at Sunset, > hate to go to the gym but always feel good after. I love work, am a > software professional, mature, smart, intelligent, independent and expect > the same in my future partner. I'm very Eastern at heart but totally > Western, if that's not obvious, in my self-expression. I love travel, > music, I'm pretty much up for any life affirming activity. > > Anything else please message me. >
