Thank you dear and you have a good weekend too. On May 24, 2013, at 8:10 AM, Share Long <sharelon...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> Hope all the Dr. RCs have a wonderful Memorial Day weekend (-: > > From: Ravi Chivukula <chivukula.r...@gmail.com> > To: "FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com" <FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com> > Sent: Thursday, May 23, 2013 1:41 PM > Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ego distortion > > > Yeah dear Dr RC, Psy. D, UCLA - the compassionate, empathetic therapist. I > love the man, he has a hard job to do. The pain, suffering, sacrifice the man > had to endure. > > But don't forget the other two RC's - fucking fundamentalists, cultists both. > I'm telling you dear, they are out to get you - beware !!! > > > On May 23, 2013, at 10:58 AM, Share Long <sharelon...@yahoo.com> wrote: > >> >> thanks for being patient with me, Dr. RC >> >> From: Ravi Chivukula <chivukula.r...@gmail.com> >> To: "FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com" <FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com> >> Sent: Thursday, May 23, 2013 12:23 PM >> Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ego distortion >> >> >> Salyavin, >> >> You missed my point, I was addressing Barry's unhealthy attention seeking >> behavior not denying his or anyone's need for attention. >> >> Every one needs attention. I myself learned to find emotionally healthy ways >> to express my need for attention which requires a healthy display of >> vulnerability and I also learned to express empathy - as in acknowledge >> others need for attention and their vulnerability. >> >> I learned all this, in a very hard way though, by my 30th year, and here's >> Barry a 65 plus old adult emotionally stunted, no healthy of expressing >> attention, no healthy ways of empathizing with others. >> >> Vulnerability equates to weakness, empathy equates to weakness. Share's >> another - she is afraid she will be controlled by fundamentalists if she >> displays any vulnerability. >> >> >> On May 23, 2013, at 9:25 AM, "salyavin808" <fintlewoodle...@mail.com> wrote: >> >>> >>> >>> >>> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula <chivukula.ravi@...> >>> wrote: >>> > >>> > Barry Wright wants attention >>> >>> Why do you lot give him so much if you object to it? >>> >>> > >>> > Barry Wright loves attention >>> > >>> > Barry Wright would kill for attention >>> > >>> > Yet he can't reveal it. He is the very troll, attention slut he accuses >>> > others of. I call him emotionally stunted - a therapist, psychologist who >>> > follow attachment theory may call him dismissive-avoidant. >>> > >>> > He is a Rama/Lenz TB - now he had to yell and scream at others being TB's. >>> > >>> > Share and Xeno are his fans. >>> > >>> > Pathetic. >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> > On May 23, 2013, at 8:41 AM, "Ann" <awoelflebater@...> wrote: >>> > >>> > > >>> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: >>> > > > >>> > > > "I yam what I yam, as Popeye used to say. I don't >>> > > > really give much of a shit what other people think >>> > > > of what I yam."--Barry Wright, last week >>> > > > >>> > > > The interesting thing about Barry's posts is >>> > > > that while he claims he doesn't give much of >>> > > > a shit what other people think of what he is, >>> > > > he still obviously wants to make absolutely >>> > > > sure we know what *he* thinks of what he is. >>> > > >>> > > >>> > > >>> > > >>> > > >>> > > >>> > > >>> > > > >>> > > > >>> > > > >>> > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: >>> > > > > >>> > > > > Well that worked. :-) >>> > > > > >>> > > > > Doc, I have no interest in anything you say because it's >>> > > > > always the same -- "**I** am > > being enlightened or even halfway >>> > > > > intelligent here> and >>> > > > > you're not!!!" >>> > > > > >>> > > > > Because you'd obviously gotten *your* buttons pushed this >>> > > > > week by me stating obvious truths about the TMO and >>> > > > > reminding people of your somewhat sordid FFL past, I >>> > > > > figured I'd just "help you out the door" by pushing your >>> > > > > buttons even more. And it worked. "You're toast, and I'm >>> > > > > not." That's my counterpart of your act. :-) >>> > > > > >>> > > > > You can rant your fantasies about my life all you want. >>> > > > > In fact, do so more often, and at the beginning of a >>> > > > > week, so we don't have to listen to them all week. :-) >>> > > > > >>> > > > > But I'll stand on the posts I make themselves. If any- >>> > > > > one actually *believes* that I was affected by anything >>> > > > > you said in your button-pushed rants this week, that is >>> > > > > their prerogative, and their folly. I just saw an oppor- >>> > > > > tunity to get you out of our hair, and took it. >>> > > > > >>> > > > > And I might do it again next week, because frankly you're >>> > > > > too stupid to realize what's being done to you and learn >>> > > > > from it. Or I might just ignore your silly ass entirely, >>> > > > > which will have exactly the same effect. :-) >>> > > > > >>> > > > > It's YOU that yearns for attention, for pats on the back, >>> > > > > and for "support" from your fellow minions, not me. THAT >>> > > > > is what put you on the bench. >>> > > > > >>> > > > > While you're on the No Self Control Bench for the next >>> > > > > few days, say hello to all of your other multiple FFL >>> > > > > personalities for me. I, for one, can't wait to meet >>> > > > > the next one, when you discover that you've exhausted >>> > > > > the doctordumbass one. :-) >>> > > > > >>> > > > > >>> > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ wrote: >>> > > > > > >>> > > > > > Do you have the hots for me, or something, Barry Wright? All this >>> > > > > > about wanting me to be a woman. Dude, last night may not have >>> > > > > > gone well for you, but I think now lusting after my ass is a bit >>> > > > > > much, don't you? >>> > > > > > >>> > > > > > You have no substantial reaction to my posts this week, except >>> > > > > > the feeling like ice water running down your back, and the >>> > > > > > tightening of your sphincter. You have made poor choices in your >>> > > > > > life, and you are all bent out of shape when I point them out to >>> > > > > > you. Your life here is a never ending rant against your core >>> > > > > > unhappiness. Please, go back to sleep, dreaming deeply, and all >>> > > > > > will be well. Perhaps you can even fantasize you and I having >>> > > > > > sex?? Whatever works... >>> > > > > > >>> > > > > > Two things, TB: I am enlightened, established in infinite silence >>> > > > > > during activity, and...and...you aren't. Your narcissism gives >>> > > > > > new meaning to the expression, "Go fuck your [small] self".:-) >>> > > > > > >>> > > > > > PS Your arithmetic is off. That's 50 for me. Thanks for all the >>> > > > > > feedback from Message View, genius!! >>> > > > > > >>> > > > > > >>> > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: >>> > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > Sez the guy with only two posts left for the week, >>> > > > > > > after demonstrating a veritable orgy of attachment >>> > > > > > > and defensiveness all week. :-) >>> > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > I must admit to one belief. The best thing that >>> > > > > > > *ever* happened on Fairfield Life was Rick being >>> > > > > > > convinced to institute -- and enforce -- the >>> > > > > > > Posting Limits. >>> > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > Try to imagine what this forum would be like without >>> > > > > > > them. A few compulsives could -- and would -- be >>> > > > > > > flooding the place with post after post after post >>> > > > > > > after post, trying to "win" their imaginary ego- >>> > > > > > > battles with sheer volume alone. >>> > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > I hereby nominate Rick for sainthood. :-) >>> > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > Unless the "post flood" consisted of hundreds of >>> > > > > > > posts from Doc "explaining" why he encouraged people >>> > > > > > > here to believe he was female for all those months. >>> > > > > > > I'd never get tired of that. :-) >>> > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > Who else feels Doc building up to a new "identity >>> > > > > > > change?" It's about time for one, after all... >>> > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ wrote: >>> > > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: >>> > > > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: >>> > > > > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > > > > On the other hand, Barry is not the one who has >>> > > > > > > > > > pissed away 40 posts so far this week trying >>> > > > > > > > > > to play spiritual one-upsmanship games and >>> > > > > > > > > > convince himself that someone -- ANYONE -- >>> > > > > > > > > > actually believes he's enlightened. >>> > > > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > > > My sense is that DrD doesn't give a shit whether >>> > > > > > > > > anybody considers him enlightened. >>> > > > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > > Yeah, Denial and acceptance, vs. non-attachment. Denial and >>> > > > > > > > acceptance are choices made by the mind. Non-attachment, on >>> > > > > > > > the other hand, is a condition of the mind. Denial and >>> > > > > > > > acceptance are willful acts. Non-attachment simply is. >>> > > > > > > > Non-attachment is a functioning of the mind and body that is >>> > > > > > > > automatic. To attempt to fake it, quickly becomes awkward. >>> > > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > > Without silence always present in the mind, the only >>> > > > > > > > correlate for non-attachment, is some willful act of the >>> > > > > > > > mind. Without the presence of ongoing silence in the mind, >>> > > > > > > > the mind never rests, and spends most of its time spinning >>> > > > > > > > its stories. With no silence in the mind, non-attachment is >>> > > > > > > > both invisible, and impossible. >>> > > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > > So, with silence always present in the mind, not only does an >>> > > > > > > > enlightened person not give a shit whether others think so, >>> > > > > > > > it is *impossible* to give a shit, about such a thing. It is >>> > > > > > > > as if someone came up to you, and challenged that you were >>> > > > > > > > breathing air. Comes across as a ridiculous question, so deep >>> > > > > > > > is the mind anchored in silence. >>> > > > > > > > >>> > > > > > > >>> > > > > > >>> > > > > >>> > > > >>> > > >>> > >> >>
