On 9/13/05 8:27 PM, "akasha_108" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Is it kind of a struggle going in to these club, believing these clubs
> are used for sex, where some dancers are drug addicts who work for
> their fix and are exploited for sex by he owners, where the
> exploitation of women who are desperate for money--for what ever
> reason--where men and women exercise their need for *control* over and
> above others?
Hi Akasha:
Well not struggle. I every case of my own I was going on someone elses
insistence, even to the point one time of paying the 50 USD cover
charge...<sigh>
It would be an almost hilarious view of the world, if it wasn't so sad and
pathetic. Is this what relationships were meant to be? If so this was the
Swanson TV Dinner type of relationship, sans microwave. Reciprocity was all
based on money. Made me wonder what type relationships this people had. Were
they in a relationship? If so, what did their partner think of all this?
Interestingly Barry transformed his situation into one where there was a
relationship in both directions. For me, that would be a very constructive
transformation.
Like I said, I don't feel any great need to argue and convince you of what
are my impressions, this is (or *was*) a discussion, not a debate or
argument. I would hope that you could find your own answers which are what
we ultimately all have to do.
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