---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
What a cowardly, and clueless, response from you, Barry. You have done as much as anybody to sow discord here, and bring up topics, incessantly, that are on your agenda, whether, or not, they are of any interest to others. You are really the last person here who should be writing this holier than thou screed - it doesn't make you sound mature, thoughtful, reflective, or insightful, at all. Mean-spirited stuff never does. It is the "mean" that usually shows up the clearest, to the detriment of whatever else of worth might have been present. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <turquoiseb@...> wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > September 9, 2012, Richard, that's when Judy started her mission, whatever it > is. Do not flatter yourself, Share. Judy's "mission," whatever it is, started with her second post to FFL, back on May 18, 2005. That's when she admitted to having stalked one of her old "enemies" from alt.meditation.transcendental to FFL, taking some quotes from one of his posts here, and reposting them back on a.m.t. to further her vendetta against him there. She then commenced the same vendetta here on FFL, one that has not let up in any way in the years since. Along the way she did exactly the same thing with other posters she didn't like -- Curtis, Vaj, Sally Sunshine, Ruth, and many others. You might not recognize some of the names, because they grew so tired of 1) her unceasing harassment and 2) the fact that she had lowered this forum to such a low level of constant bickering and argumentation that they found nothing worth sticking around for. That probably was the goal of her "mission" in the first place, to drive away anyone who didn't bow to her pose as "the authority" in all things, She Who Must Not Be Contradicted, And Who Must Be Obeyed In All Things. :-) You're small potatoes, Share. She only focuses on you these days because you're one of the *only* people left on the forum who haven't caught on to her act, and as a result just ignore her as the vindictive, know-nothing ego-beast she is. Her whole pursuit of you is *not* (as you'd like to believe) because you're "special." It's because you're SUCH A SUCKER. She knows that in you she's found someone with an ego as fragile and as sensitive as hers, and so whenever she or one of her minions attacks you or pokes fun at you, you'll feel that you "have to" reply. YOU HAVE NEVER 'GOTTEN' THAT SHE *WANTS* YOU TO REPLY. She *lives* for her enemies replying to her attacks and/or rebutting them. *No matter what happens and what is said*, she considers each and every one of the ensuing exchanges a "victory." She claims to have "won" all of them. So the game IS really all about getting suckers to respond. In this sense, she is *exactly* like Richard. *His* goal is to try to poke and prod at people until they respond to him; then he's "proved himself" as a Class A Troll, and -- again, in *his* mind -- has "won." Judy is *exactly* the same. The one thing that neither of them can cope with is someone figuring out this act and *not* responding. That drives them up the wall, and makes them feel as if they and what they say is of so little consequence that no one *needs* to pay attention to any of it, much less respond to it. In other words, it gives them a taste of reality. You *feed* her insanity by "standing up for yourself," Share. And in a very real sense, YOU'RE JUST LIKE HER. Whenever the attacks on you die down, YOU find a way to restart them, so that you can say stuff and get people to respond to you, too. And -- just like Judy -- you are oblivious to the fact that these ongoing bitch-fests have lowered the entire consciousness of FFL, and driven a lot of people away. They *didn't* leave because of Neo; they left because YOU AND JUDY lobbied to have the posting limits removed, so you could spam this forum with your pettiness as much as you wanted to. Removing Ravi a second time was IMO a good decision on Rick's part. His vindictive bipolarism have caused at least one person to leave this forum when he was readmitted; maybe that person will come back and participate now that he's gone, hopefully for good this time. But if Rick *really* wanted to "clean up the act" of Fairfield Life, what he could do is remove the two people who most contribute to dragging it down into the gutter of petty, endless, ego-bickering. A few weeks without either YOU *or* JUDY, and her minions would dry up and blow away, and perhaps the forum could return to discussing things of actual interest again.