--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > > > > Neither the word nor the definition implied > > insincerity to me. Toady is as toady *does*. > > It's about behavior, not the sincerity of > > the behavior. > > Nice try, no cigar. The definition itself > characterizes the behavior in terms of motivations. > "In the hope of gaining" and "Self-seeking" are both > phrases describing motivations, not behavior. > > And in both cases those motivations are contrary > to what the *behavior* suggests--i.e., admiration > of the person being flattered. > > > Your mileage may (and probably > > will) vary. Such is life. > > You can define "toady" however you like. I'm > pointing out that the definition you supplied implies > (in the sense of "necessary consequence") that the > behavior is insincere.
It implies it TO YOU. And as usual, in your mind that means that there is only one possible way of interpreting the word or concept -- it's the Judy Way or no way at all. :-) One last try. Think of the Vatican. The place is just *full* of toadies, sucking up to the current Pope. Does this mean that they're insincere in their faith? Of course not. They're just being toadies. ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make Yahoo! your home page http://us.click.yahoo.com/dpRU5A/wUILAA/yQLSAA/JjtolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
