In other words, they had no "direct experience" of me whatsoever. And yet (according to Barry), they called me a "psychotic cultist bitch" (kinda silly, since I'm obviously neither psychotic nor a cultist, and Barry is umpty times bitchier than I am).
Now, if you want to introduce the suspicion that Barry lied about what his "family" said, I have no problem with that; I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if that were the case. Finally, note that I didn't assert anything at all about Barry's "family." As you know (but are pretending not to because you're still in distort-what-Judy-said mode), I speculated about his "family" in exactly the same way you speculated about them--without having any direct experience of them at all. Both your speculation and my speculation were meaningless; that was my point. (Actually, if they are, in fact, "nice" people, I rather doubt he ever shares anything on FFL with them. He'd have to be very selective and avoid showing them the kind of thing he writes, because it would shock and horrify them, especially given his apparently close relationship with Maya.) And left dangling is your failure to chastise either Barry or Steve concerning their vile speculations about DoctorDumbass's marriage. Talk about hypocrisy... How you can face yourself in the mirror, I can't imagine. Judy, it sounded like turq had shown them what you had written. Whereas you're going by one utterance of his, whom you often call a liar! Almost none of us here have direct experience of the rest of us. IMO that's a good reason to reserve judgement or at least err on the positive side. Speaking of which, I was actually shocked, which is a good thing, by what you said about turq's family because I had never heard you say something like that about individuals who don't even post here. On Tuesday, March 25, 2014 1:11 PM, "authfriend@..." <authfriend@...> wrote: Thank you for posting what I actually said. Try not to distort it next time, OK? What I wrote was quite clear and direct before you tried to turn it into innuendo, implication, obfuscation, and indirect accusation. And I note that, as predicted, you avoided answering my question. That's because you couldn't answer it honesty without its reflecting poorly on Barry's "family." Judy, I think you are very good at innuendo, implication, obfuscation and indirect accusation. Here is what you wrote: For all we know, his "family" approves of and encourages his despicable behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten as he is. I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing). On Tuesday, March 25, 2014 11:49 AM, "authfriend@..." <authfriend@...> wrote: Not what I said, Share. If you have to misquote to make your point, you know there's something wrong with it. BTW, has Barry's "family" had "a lot of direct and negative experience" with me? (Share won't answer this question. And of course she isn't going to chastise Barry or the Feeb for their disgusting speculations about DoctorDumbass's marriage.) Yep, Judy and you're still sinking! In this case by leaving off the accompanying part where you suggested that his family is as "rotten" as turq; and later when you said you were shocked but "gratified" to conclude that they are! Based on one utterance of his! People with whom you have had no direct contact?! FWIW, it would take a heck of a lot of direct and negative experience with a person in order for me to think of them as rotten. And there is NOTHING that would make me feel gratified to come to such conclusion about another human being. On Monday, March 24, 2014 9:45 PM, "authfriend@..." <authfriend@...> wrote: Interesting, According to Share, I was "sinking to a new low" when I suggested Barry's "family" encouraged his despicable behavior here (and can't acknowledge that I was right). Now here's the Feebo applauding one of Barry's most despicable attacks ever on FFL. Think Share will chastise either Feebs or Barry? For example, how's your marriage doing, you who are so keen to paint me with the brush of "emotional issues?" We haven't heard much about your wife lately. Is she still your wife? Father forgive me. I've wondered the same thing. Or are you roaming around the country in your trailer because you've got no home to go home to?
