turq, WRT Emily, I actually was ignoring her and she kept making inaccurate psychological comments to other people about my ignoring her, etc. So yeah, I took the bait to set the record straight, and partially to be minimally courteous.
More about Emily since she's back on mission after her break! IMO she used to post interesting stuff here sometimes. Now, like you said, she mainly posts to analyze me. For what ultimate purpose?! And why is she so obsessed with me?! It's totally weird imho! Of course it all started over the RWC kafufel. Really, go figure! Judy is another story, being way harsher and self righteous. What compels a person to participate in such a manner so unrelentingly? And for decades! I admit it totally baffles me. Well, not totally. I have my theories.Which I'm sure you guys would LOVE to hear LOL! On Tuesday, June 17, 2014 5:06 AM, "TurquoiseBee turquoi...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]" <FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com> wrote: From: salyavin808 <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <turquoiseb@...> wrote : From: salyavin808 <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <awoelflebater@...> wrote : On 6/16/2014 8:26 PM, feste37 wrote: >>>>It's not a matter of "protection." It's simply that your harassment of Share is so persistent, so unpleasant, so obsessive, that it leaves a nasty taste in the mouth. No one deserves to be pursued by a harridan like you, least of all Share, who knows how to preserve civil discourse even if you don't. >>>> >>>> >>>>Oh for God's sake and mine just leave it alone. If I were Share I would >>>>tell you to back off, mind your own business and assume I can look after >>>>myself. You treat her like an invalid. You're all so cloying and >>>>claustrophobic. Anyone with an iota of self respect would be insulted by >>>>all of your "concern" and it's about time Share showed a bit of >>>>independence and told you all to "fuck off". >>>> >>>> >>>>Actually, I'm surprised Share hasn't told you lot to fuck off and just >>>>ignore all the attempts to "correct" her non-approved behaviour. >>Or is it that she must be assimilated or driven off the forum? >>Who knows, without this tedious correcting and fake concern that clogs the >>list this place might get to be worth reading again..... >>> >>> >>>As I've said before, IMO Share has an ego-investment in all of this >>>persecution herself, otherwise she wouldn't (as she often does) start up one >>>of the harassment campaigns again after it's died down, just to "get in the >>>last word." That's her part in all of this. That said, it's pretty amazing that the perpetrators of this harassment really don't *get* how accurate my comparisons of it to a Jr. High School "Mean Girls Club" really are. Whenever their lives get boring (which seems to be often), they "liven them up" by pouncing on someone they perceive to be weaker, and attacking her. Judy is the worst. For her it's a lifestyle. My bet is that if you went back and really analyzed the traffic on Fairfield Life, you would be unable to find *a single week* in which she has *not* found the need to "correct" someone. Which, in her case, means "belittle them and put them down as stupid so I can appear to be smart." This is just what she DOES. We can all speculate about what *caused* this behavior in her, but there is simply no question that the behavior is present. It was present when she first showed up on a.m.t. nearly twenty years ago, it has been present pretty much every week she was posting since then, and it is present now. For Judy, Descartes' "I think, therefore I am" had been reduced to "I correct and put down and try to intimidate, therefore I am." She really, really, really can't live without it. Ann is just a follower, primarily "in it" for the pats on the head and the dog biscuits she gets from Yet Another Abuser She's Chosen To Follow. She did it with Robin, not just tolerating but *applauding* his abuse of others, and now she's doing it with Judy. Her version of Descartes' statement is "I'm terrified that I'm not really *anything* unless I'm trying to put down the person I've been told to put down," and in that assessment she would actually be correct. She's nothing. Emily's more of a puzzle, in that she seems to have really, really, really developed her own personal vendetta against Share. It may have *started* with her just "following the girls" in the Mean Girls Club, but now the opportunity to dump on Share is pretty much the only thing that draws her back to FFL. She's addicted to Judy's playbook, having found it a "good fit" for herself. And interestingly, she's even more in denial about her real motivations for doing this (hatred) than Judy is. On some level, I think Judy may actually be aware of how insanely vindictive she is; I don't think Emily is, or will ever be. She's in complete denial. Jim, the last member of the Mean Girls Club, is just in it for the attention. He'll do *anything* and say *anything* to get attention. We *are*, after all, talking about the guy who pretended to be a woman on this forum for several months, as if the falsely claiming to be enlightened wasn't *enough*. But he also piles on because the persecution routine is a "good fit" for him because his solipsism is so strongly established that he can't really feel any empathy for the people whose persecution he piles on to. All in all, it's really quite an embarrassing soap opera, played out as it is on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, and year after year. Judy orchestrated it by creating such a poisonous atmosphere that all of this actually feels "normal" to many people who have had to put up with it for all these years, but it's not. It's pathological, and even more sick in supposed adults than it is in the Jr. High School girls they're emulating. I suppose we should be happy for so much free entertainment. I remember enjoying the Mean Girls movie though, maybe because it didn't go on and on for so long.... Compare and contrast, especially in light of Curtis' masterful take-down of their "You *must* be the way we think you should be" mindset they display so often, not to mention how some of their victims respond to it. "On Wednesdays we wear pink!" "And they have this book, this Burn Book, in which they say mean things about all the girls in our grade." "What does it say about me?" "You're not in it." "Those bitches!" "I can put my whole fist in my mouth. Want to see?" "It's OK. Anything else? "I'm kind of psychic. I have a fifth sense." "What do you mean?" "It's like I have ESPN or something. My breasts can always tell when it's going to rain." "Laura, I don't hate you because you're fat. You're fat because I hate you." "I'm sorry that people are so jealous of me. I can't help it that I'm popular." The Greatest Quotes from Mean Girls The Greatest Quotes from Mean Girls View on www.youtube.com Preview by Yahoo
