--- In [email protected], "jim_flanegin" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In [email protected], "jim_flanegin" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> >
> > --- In [email protected], Rick Archer 
> > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > >
> > > on 12/22/05 4:58 AM, Jason Spock at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
> > >   
> > > >     Pension was deducted from the salaries of all initators 
in 
> > indiâ.  Nobody
> > > > knows what happened to the pension fund.  Nobody has 
recieved 
> > his pension
> > > > fund. 
> > > >   
> > > Same thing happens here. Whenever MUM is in the black, it is 
> > ransacked by
> > > ³International² so that for months afterwards it is unable to 
> pay 
> > its
> > > vendors. Meanwhile, faculty and staff have been working for 
> > decades for a
> > > pittance. They have nothing to retire on, unless they can 
expect 
> a 
> > family
> > > inheritance.
> > >
> > Then they should grow up and take responsibility for their 
future, 
> > and quit waiting for Daddy to do it for them.
> >
> This is one of those classic situations that Byron Katie teaches 
> about- Lots of "but it should be like this" and "I did this, 
> therefore someone should've done this" and "Someone said this, and 
> it hasn't happened yet, but it will" involved here. 
> 
> Rick expresses the naked reality of people firmly welded to a 
> specific outcome, and not getting it. 
> 
> Therefore it may be prudent and realistic for them to recognize 
what 
> in fact is happening, i.e. they are living in near poverty 
> conditions, and deal with it, instead of continuously waiting for 
> deliverance.
>
Some may see these statements of mine as those of an idealogue or 
uncaring soul. A bit of my personal financial history over the last 
ten years:

-Gave away a house now worth ~750K following my divorce. Didn't have 
to, but without going into details, it was in my heart the right 
thing to do, not from a standpoint of guilt, but love.
-Have been laid off 4 times in my high tech field.
-Have been unemployed for 3 of the past 5 years.
-Have virtually no savings and am over 50 years old.

Throughout I have persevered, and money has been there when it had 
to be. Quite miraculously, and without any begging on my part. I 
have often worked for free and offered my services and skills at no 
charge, in order to continue to excel in my chosen profession.

Did I feel sorry for myself and get depressed and complain like hell 
at times? Of course, who wouldn't? But that was then and this is 
now, as they say. Over time, as the wise person who recently posted 
the brilliant piece on God in all things, I learned the wisdom of 
everything I went through, and grew in ways I never would have, had 
I not faced such adversity.

The point being we are ultimately responsible for ourselves, and can 
either succeed or fail, moment by moment. it is entirely our choice 
and our Reality. I have learned as a result, to always stay in touch 
with Reality, and the living truth of the expression God helps those 
that help themselves. 

Jai Guru Dev 






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