My spam monitor catches all the multiple posts because I don't get them.

----- Original Message ----- 
From: "TurquoiseB" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: <[email protected]>
Sent: Thursday, November 02, 2006 11:09 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: "Top Posters" for October


> --- In [email protected], "jim_flanegin" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
>>
>> --- In [email protected], TurquoiseB <no_reply@> wrote:
>> >
>> > Total posts: 4672
>> >
>> > shempmcgurk -- 541 (11.6%)
>> > sparaig -- 533 (11.4%)
>> > authfriend -- 482 (10.3%)
>> > new.morning -- 265 (5.7%)
>> > off_world_beings -- 253 (5.4%)
>> > turquoiseb -- 218 (4.7%)
>> >
>> > Again, the "top three" account for a third
>> > of all posts. And again, they'll take no
>> > notice of this. So far in November, they
>> > account for 47% of all posts made.
>>
>> What's the harm?
>
> No one is suggesting that these three don't post.
> However, quite a few people here have commented
> on the effect that their *lack of self control*
> in posting has had on the newsgroup.
>
> Imagine being a newbie, drawn to FFL by the blurb
> on the home page, and trying to read through it
> yesterday and today. What you would find is a
> group that *appears* to be dominated by three
> rather vociferous and harsh people. Their posts
> constitute almost half of everything you could
> read on the forum. They seem to do nothing but
> argue (or, to be kind, they seem to do nothing
> but argue in 80% of their posts). And they argue,
> for the most part, about subjects that have little
> or nothing to do with the subjects that attracted
> you as a newbie to the group in the first place.
>
> Would you be moved to give such a group a second try?
>
> To me, the issue is a social one. Quite a few people
> here have tried, in one way or another to *get through*
> to these three and tell them that their lack of self
> control and tendency to dominate the forum by regularly
> posting twice to six times as much as the other regular
> posters is not appreciated. People have asked them
> politely to cut down. Others have suggested giving
> them an enforced "time out." Still others have stopped
> reading them entirely.
>
> BUT (and this is the important thing IMO), *at no
> point* in all of this has any of the three ever given
> the impression that they *hear* what the other members
> of their community are saying to them. Shemp actually
> treats it as a joke, and continues to make posts that
> seem to have *no other function* but to provoke the
> other two, and cause them to post even more. Sparaig
> reacts to posts like mine that point out his habits
> by *posting even more*. And although Judy *has* cut
> down a little from her highs of a few months ago,
> whenever the subject comes up she reacts by claim-
> ing that people (me, in particular) are trying to
> silence or censor her.
>
> I think I speak for many people here in saying that
> all we're asking is for these three to CATCH A
> FUCKIN' CLUE and realize that what they are doing
> is socially unacceptable.
>
> A CHILD would have heard the feedback they'd received
> from their peers by this time and made some attempt
> to change their unaccpetable behavior. Why haven't
> these three?
>
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