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========================= --- In [email protected], "curtisdeltablues" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > "You must have also missed the "Sidha dresses" phase--made the saris > look positively sexy." > > Saris are sexy, but you have to have the right walk to pull it off. > You can't charge ahead in them like you are late for the bus! The > head has to lag behind the plane of the hips I think, and you have to > walk slowly. New Morning help me out here! > > > --- In [email protected], Sal Sunshine <salsunshine@> > wrote: > > > > On Nov 5, 2006, at 2:59 PM, TurquoiseB wrote: > > > I missed all of the dressing-in-saris-and-identically- > > > white-suits thang. After my time. For that matter, I > > > missed the entire MD and THP thang, too. And Chopra, > > > much less Rajas. I beat feet in the '78-79 ballpark. > > > > You must have also missed the "Sidha dresses" phase--made the saris > > look positively sexy. > > > > > > > >>> But the one thing that remained constant in my > > >>> experience was that if there was an "attention > > >>> hierarchy" to be climbed, some women were driven > > >>> to climb it, even if doing so made them miserable > > >>> on a day-to-day basis, and cut them off from > > >>> cordial company with the other women. > > >> > > >> Yep, there's those types in all groups, the only thing that > > >> changes is the criterion. > > > > > > Exactly. > > > > > >> In MD I would guess whoever's got the most dough gets > > >> the most attention. > > > > > > I would expect pretty much the same thing. However, > > > given human nature, I would imagine that four or five > > > of them really share the "big money maker" crown, so > > > I would expect there to be some *other* criterion that > > > these four or five would use to define the absolute > > > pecking order. And I would imagine that it isn't pretty. > > > > > >>> Have you ever been stuck in a relationship that, > > >>> for all intents and purposes, was over, deceased, > > >>> a dead parrot? And have you ever, in such a > > >>> situation, stayed in the relationship because > > >>> you hoped that it could regain the magic it once > > >>> held for you? > > >> > > >> I don't know if it was for that reason or simple apathy-- > > > > > > Entropy. It is, after all, the other strong force > > > in the universe. > > > > > >> maybe a combination. > > >> > > >>> That, in my opinion, is why women stay in a very > > >>> visible position that requires them to be models > > >>> of blissninnydom, when they're feeling not the > > >>> least blissy. Same thing for the men who persist > > >>> in paths that make them less than happy. Most of > > >>> them, in my opinion, are just pushing the rela- > > >>> tionship past its time. But one never realizes > > >>> that one is doing that until one does, whether > > >>> it's a spiritual relationship or an amatory one. > > >>> > > >>> People do weird shit. There's really no figuring > > >>> it out sometimes... > > >> > > >> That's for sure. And paying large sums, to the tune of > > >> thousands a year, to be essentially unhappy, is about as > > >> weird as you can get. Freud would have a field day with > > >> those two groups. > > > > > > Yes he would. But I have some compassion because I've > > > been there, done that, and worn out the T-shirt. Several > > > times. I stayed too long in most of my amatory affairs, > > > and I stayed too long in most of my spiritual affairs. > > > I hung in there long past the day when I realized it > > > was over, sometimes years past the day when I realized > > > it was over, often to the detriment of my spiritual > > > and mental health. But hey!, we all do stupid shit. > > > It's one of those perks you get for being born human. > > > > > > To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
