> She's not worth the "dialog" Curtis. And the idea of this big tub of
> condescending snarkiness having a "belly laugh" or a "horselaugh" is
> extremely unappealing under any circumstances.

Thanks Geezer.  The whole victim projection is one of moves that
people try to impose to make my leaving the movement into an emotional
reaction rather than an intellectual choice.  I have only heard it
about one hundred times.

Although getting through to Judy is not possible, I wanted to express
that leaving the movement with your own dignity is an option.  You are
only a victim if you choose that point of view on the experience. 
Given that I had so many positive experiences in the movement I would
have to go way out of my way to look at it as being victimized.  The
movement pulled some manipulative shit, but I worked very hard to get
on the courses I took. I could have pulled the plug at any point. I
didn't because the pros far outweighed the cons for me. Until they didn't.

I know you understand.


--- In [email protected], "geezerfreak" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:
>
> --- In [email protected], "curtisdeltablues"
> <curtisdeltablues@> wrote:
> >
> > Judy: "Uh-huh. Thing is, it's not as obvious as
> > you'd like to think.
> > 
> > Maybe you should just work on being more
> > straightforward:"
> > 
> > Me: I was wondering how you would spin your ridiculous
> > misunderstanding as my fault.  
> > 
> > Nice touch not backing down on the victim point.
> > 
> > <horselaugh>
> >   
> She's not worth the "dialog" Curtis. And the idea of this big tub of
> condescending snarkiness having a "belly laugh" or a "horselaugh" is
> extremely unappealing under any circumstances.
> 
> Thank god (and Rick) that her pontifications from on high (horse) are
> limited to 5 a day or whatever the current program is. It's a start.
>


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