You know, you and Bailey know how to 'talk' to each other. You know him better than anybody... The situation you're in is all of our worst nightmares... No matter what, Bailey feels your love and your concern... He knows that you've always done right by him. The gifts the two of you have given to each other over these years are what he knows and feels.
There's no such thing as 'handling' such a terrible decision...We make these sorts of decisions from our hearts not our minds... and your heart is big enough to do the right thing. You can't possibly make a 'bad' decision--what you feel in your heart is right is the only 'good' decision. Here's hoping things go better than you're worried about... Give the little guy a big hug from all of us... We're all thinking about him--and you! Chris [EMAIL PROTECTED] -----Original Message----- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Belinda Sent: Friday, May 05, 2006 4:54 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: Was appropriate calorie in take for a kitty - NowBailey's Diagnosis Thank you Wendy, it's been so hard these last months seeing him this way, he in better health is such a bouncy happy-go-lucky boy, gets along with everyone. It's been hard watching him not feel well for so long and not being able to figure out why. If nothing else we may finally understand what has been causing him to feel so rotten for so long. I just pray it is treatable. I can't tell you how many times on the cancer lists I'm on that someones furchild was having surgery that started out optimistically and once the vet had their fur child open realized just how bad things really were and then with moms/dads input decided not to wake their furchild up. I don't know if I could handle a decision like that, that's why if things are really that bad I hope Bailey takes the decision out of my hands ... like Buddie did. I'm one of those people who has a very hard time losing control and showing my emotions so I keep everything bottled up and don't deal with it, in a way its not good because I distance myself so it won't hurt as bad. And the look on Bailey's face whenever he sees me just tears my heart out, but I keep telling myself when he gets better he will forgive me and forget all the hard times. But if he doesn't get better it will be hard to deal with ... -- Belinda happiness is being owned by cats ... Be-Mi-Kitties http://bemikitties.com Post Adoptable FeLV/FIV/FIP Cats/Kittens http://adopt.bemikitties.com FeLV Candlelight Service http://bemikitties.com/cls HostDesign4U.com [affordable hosting & web design] http://HostDesign4U.com ------------ BMK Designs [non-profit animals websites] http://bmk.bemikitties.com
