Well I haven't taken these kittens in yet, and probably won't.  The mother 
moved them, and the farmer doesn't even know where they are now (and probably 
didn't look very hard).  I think that it might not be the best idea to take 
them anyway, since the mom is half wild and there would be a good chance she 
could abandon the babies.  I am unable to feed them every 2 hours, and I don't 
know anyone that could or would be able to.  The babies may be better off 
taking their chances where they are.

I'm still not really ready to take in more kitties, but my husband wants to.  
The thing is, as soon as you mention you might be interested in adopting, it 
seems everyone has kittens they want to get rid of.  We've been offered kittens 
by about 6 different people.  It is a bit overwhelming the number of unwanted 
kittens, especially at this time of year.

Cassandra
  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: C & J 
  To: [email protected] 
  Sent: Monday, June 25, 2007 10:42 PM
  Subject: Now i've got something of a dilemma


  My husband works with a young guy who lives with his parents on a farm.  
These people have barn cats, who they basically care very little about.  Well 
one of the cats had kittens a couple of days ago, and got cornered by a dog.  
By the looks of how scratched up the dog was, she put up a good fight, but the 
dog ate all but 2 of the kittens.  The farmers don't care about the kittens at 
all, so they may still be in danger from the dog.

  My husband, feeling empty and sad by all that we've been through, and wanting 
to make me happy again, offered to take the mom and babies.

  I seriously don't know what to make of this.  On the one hand, it is far far 
too soon for me take in anymore kitties, especially three of them.  By the 
sounds of it, momma is half wild as she doesn't receive much attention from 
humans.  She is used to being outside on the farm, and I don't know how she 
would handle coming into a strange house all of a sudden.  It is possible she 
might get stressed out and not take care of her little ones?

  I also wanted to test my remaining two cats for FeLV in about 6 weeks, to 
make sure they haven't picked it up.  I didn't want to expose any kittens to 
the virus.  Plus I don't know if this momma is even healthy.  She could have 
the virus herself, or any other number of things.  She will never have been 
vaccinated.  If I was going to get more kitties, I wanted to check out their 
backgrounds a little bit.

  On the other hand, these poor kitties may or may not survive on the farm.  
Nobody cares about them.  Plus, ever since I was 9 years old and watched a 
mother cat give birth and watched the kittens grow, i've wanted to experience 
that again.  I know I could give them a much better life.

  I just know i'm not ready to make this sort of decision.  I've got open 
wounds that will take a long time to heal, and just replacing my 3 lost babies 
so quickly is not the way to heal.  I wasn't even sure I wanted to get more 
cats, and definately wanted to wait quite awhile.  I felt both appalled and 
excited when my husband told me that he had offered to take the kitties in.  
When it hurts so much, sometimes you just want to try filling those empty 
places in your heart.

  I know its difficult to give me any advice on this one, but I just needed to 
tell someone.  You have all been friends to me through the rough times.

  Cassandra


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