So well said Randy and I mirror all of your comments. I sometimes put upon
my pets what I would want someone to do for me if were to become seriously
ill. My sister got so angry with me that I didn’t put my dog down after he
started losing his hair and stumbling about. The vet could find nothing
wrong (1500 dollars worth of tests?) with him, said he was old and scolded
me for taking him home instead of euthanizing him. I Googled for hours,
found some articles about symptoms of low thyroid and called a new vet the
next day. His thyroid levels were undetectable. One little cheap pill every
day and he lived to be 16 after a very tough life before being rescued. I
can tell you my old vet was pretty humiliated when I called to tell him what
he had missed. He is still in business though, telling other pet owners that
their old animals are doomed.

We know our pets. We know when they are ready. Trust that. Keep searching
and don’t lose hope.

Best to you and Curly.

Sherri


From:  Felvtalk <[email protected]> on behalf of Amani
Oakley <[email protected]>
Reply-To:  <[email protected]>
Date:  Friday, December 16, 2016 at 4:55 AM
To:  "[email protected]" <[email protected]>
Subject:  Re: [Felvtalk] For all the kind souls who care so much

Hi Randy
 
Thank you for your kind comments. I think that we came together in this
forum because all of us were really fed up with the fact that most of us
encountered vets who immediately tell us to put down our FeLV cats. I
personally have vented many times in emails, about the extreme difficulty
most folks are encountering when asking for a Winstrol prescription (it’s a
LONG story), and vets often refuse to prescribe it because of a concern that
it MAY cause liver problems. So, bizarrely enough, they are soooo concerned
about our cats’ well-being, that they would rather have them dead than
subject them to a potential side-effect. Make sense???
 
All of us in this group are dedicated to trying to find a solution, rather
than a knee-jerk response of putting down the cat. But yeah, I too encounter
folks everywhere who think I am coo-coo for coco puffs!
 
Amani 
 
From: Felvtalk [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of
Randy Henke
Sent: December-15-16 10:22 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: [Felvtalk] For all the kind souls who care so much
 

I am new to this mailing list, our precious cat, Curly, having been just
recently diagnosed with FELV but already quite sick twice and just beginning
to rally (fingers crossed) from her second bout with severe anemia and
leukopenia.

I just wanted to say how much I admire every one of you here who go to such
great lengths for their pets, nursing them back from the brink time and
again, spending hundreds or thousands of dollars for treatment after
treatment to give them as much time with us as we possibly can.

My wife and I are both surrounded by friends and co-workers who think we are
fools for caring so much about an animal. They ask why we are so melancholy
and then look at us with disbelief when we tell them the reason. Their
philosophy is to take good care of their pets but when they get seriously
ill, it's time to put them down and move on.

To me, such thinking could only come from cold, heartless and selfish
individuals. Sometimes I actually envy them because life would be so much
easier if I could think like they do. But I can't and I won't. Just because
a family member has four legs instead of two doesn't diminish their worth
nor does it detract from their will to live. We do them an egregious
disservice by shortening their lives when there are still viable options on
the table that can provide additional months or even weeks of quality life.

The devotion and empathy that you people have for your cats is so touching
to me that I am sitting here right now crying.

God bless every one of you.
Randy

 
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