Michelle,

You feel 4 years was short for a positive?? It's still all too fresh with
me. It is sooo hard to loose kittens, especially my Leeloo, who was sweet
beyond description. But, let me tell you how lucky you are to have had your
positives for so long!!

Of the litter of 4...
Leeloo: 8 months 1 day
Abby:   7 months
Milo:   4 1/2 months

Loki, at 8 1/2 months, is still healthy and going strong.


Steve
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Subject: life spans of positives


If it is not too hard, could people let me know the ages of their positives
now, and the ages of positives who have passed? I keep being told that I was
being unrealistic in my hope that Simon, and my others, would live longer
than
they did. I had heard of positives living as long as 14.  My Jo died at age
3,
Buddy at age 18 months, and Simon was around 4.  My largest grief right now
is
about his suffering and what he went through, but I am also so
grief-stricken
at how short his life was. And it was short, very short, at 4 years old,
when
cats can live to 20. But I also feel like it was short for a positive, like
I
should have been able to help him live longer than that. I am trying to
assess my expectations of this, regarding my remaining positives as well,
and so
just want to know what the age spans really are for positives who are well
cared-for, so maybe I can be more honest with myself about what truly can be
expected.
Thanks,
Michelle


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