Title: Re: FLUXLIST: Sorry for mixing Alan with Allan
This might be the time to introduce this list to the notion of UPG ‘Unconditional Positive Regard’. It’s a term used in contemporary cultural theory and is used when one probably needs to say ‘love’  but one is unable or it would be absolutely inappropriate to do so. Apparently nurses use the term for describing their  relationship with their patients and it probably describes the relationship those amoung us who have dogs,  expect from them no matter how we treat them. There is a proposition floating about that UPG should be the underlying principle that informs <Netlist> communication. Now out here at the edge you can call someone a “F***king Old Bastard” and do it in the spirit of UPG. Its quite a confusing ‘convention’ but in a way that’s most useful aspect. I tell you this because out here it’s <LOONYmonday> and I do not want to enter the new <SOLARcycle>  without doing so.


Ray _from  way out on the edge
eMail: [EMAIL PROTECTED] (when the server’s up)



On 21/6/04 3:59 AM, "secret fluxus" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

Dear Fluxlisters,

We seem to have confused Alan Bowman with Allan Revich.

It is to Allan Revich that we should have written, 'We have explained who we
are and what we do a few times now. We will be happy to do it again.
Following a few events and accidents last month, we are rethinking our own
activities, so our view of ourselves may change, but we'll post a relatively
current statement. We do indeed include a couple of art students in our
midst, and many argue that solicitors are wankers, but the rest of the
labels on your list are hardly neutral. If you truly intend no offence,
there are better ways to avoid giving offence than by asking whether we are  
"killjoys, pompous little twerps, little children with big mouths" etc.'

Your long list of pejoratives is designed to offend. So is your manner of
addressing us as "Mr. and Mrs. Secret Fluxus," and the like when you know we
are a group. We use the polite form in all correspondence because, as an
anonymous group, we can't claim to know any one person directly or on a
first-name basis.

Mr. Bukoff has changed the purpose of Fluxlist, and the reasons we joined
are no longer among the purposes. If you or others find our interests
bothersome, we will be happy to leave the list.

Sincerely,

Secret Fluxus

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