That sh*t really offends me and I wish you would cut it the h*ell out! <whimper>
On 12/8/20 9:20 AM, uǝlƃ ↙↙↙ wrote: > Nicely circular! You don't have to know/believe the meaning of your words, > for those words to have meaning. I'm particularly fond of how abusers will > say something abhorrent, then act all surprised when victims take offense. > The abuser often takes the stance that they were simply joking and the > snowflake should grow a thicker skin. I'm as guilty as the rest. > > On 12/8/20 8:15 AM, Marcus Daniels wrote: >> I was kidding, of course.. believing the topic to be devoid of meaning, and >> so more absurd than abusive. >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: Friam <[email protected]> On Behalf Of u?l? ??? >> Sent: Tuesday, December 8, 2020 8:09 AM >> To: [email protected] >> Subject: Re: [FRIAM] Nick's Recovery >> >> It's important, even/especially for long-term partners, to reflect on >> possibly abusive habits. Even if the abused and the abuser *agree* that the >> habit isn't intentional abuse, an outsider will often *rightly* identify the >> habit as abusive. >> >> On 12/7/20 6:23 PM, Frank Wimberly wrote: >>> If you agree that was mean please accept my sincere apologies. I am hoping >>> that you didn't find it so. Marcus hasn't been privy to the hundreds of >>> frank, sometimes humorous, in-person exchanges between us over the last 15+ >>> years and I meant it in that spirit. > - .... . -..-. . -. -.. -..-. .. ... -..-. .... . .-. . FRIAM Applied Complexity Group listserv Zoom Fridays 9:30a-12p Mtn GMT-6 bit.ly/virtualfriam un/subscribe http://redfish.com/mailman/listinfo/friam_redfish.com archives: http://friam.471366.n2.nabble.com/ FRIAM-COMIC http://friam-comic.blogspot.com/
