Karen,

I much enjoyed your salutary piece. There's something very serious going on
in developed countries today -- serious for boys, that is -- and
particularly so for those of average or less than average abilities.
Increasingly, there'll be little role for them in tomorrow's world.
Meanwhile women are taking over the top jobs in many industries, especially
in those that are managerially complex. I don't think we've seen the half
of women's lib yet -- particularly if it can backtrack from the absurd
"equality/similarity of sexes" avenue where it's been stuck for too long
and find a more realistic "men are too dangerous/criminal" one. Then, we
might start getting somewhere. Men ought to be confined to research labs,
the football field, space exploration, circuses and not a great deal else.

Keith

At 08:09 21/10/02 -0700, you wrote:

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Ed, I agree that rapid social change could be a factor in the "hikikomori"
phenomenon of Japanese males.  Economic conditions are bringing about other
social changes reflective of current polls showing fewer Japanese adhere to
traditional gender roles, such as housewives entering the labor market to
sustain the household as husbands' hours, bonuses and expense accounts were
slashed.  We are not talking about the lower class or lower middle class of
shop keepers, but the class of women who graduated from college and then
became lifetime homemakers.  These women mostly like their new
accomplishments, even when minor and at minimum wage: they like earning
their own money, not being bored at home and new power in the house.
Shortly, we should be reading about how these recent developments are
affecting latch key kids in already more rambunctious Japanese classrooms
but will not be surprised that the Japanese husband has not picked up the
pace of shared housework at home.  You can see how the male in Japan might
be stressed.

I wonder if the demographic trend in American schools that has teachers and
sociologists so concerned has anything to do with "hikikomori"?
Educators are increasingly noticing that girls are outperforming boys in US
schools in all age groups, even through grad school.  I'd read something
(and maybe posted) about it previously, but saw a story on 60 minutes last
night that hit the basic outline: boys are dropping out, not reading as
well, not competitive in the classroom, not scoring on tests as well as
before, finding jobs without pursuing higher ed and even though there are
more graduating from grad programs now, if this trend continues unabated,
they project that women will be performing white collar jobs and men the
blue collar jobs by midcentury and everyone agrees this is bad news.  Da so
des, in Japanese: so they say.

US law schools this year will have more girls than boys, med and business
schools are looking that way.  There are still more boy geniuses but
proportionately, girls are outperforming boys in school as valedictorians,
math and science awards, leadership positions.  The interviewer met a
principal at one high school in Massachusetts where the girls completely
dominated the graduation ceremonies and leadership positions, while the boys
seem to be focusing more and more on athletics as their arena for
excellence.  The point was made that this was not an isolated high school,
apparently joined by a growing list of others.

So of course, they went to outside experts for opinions, Daniel Kindlon,
author of Raising Cain, a book about protecting the emotional life of boys,
and a female ex-teacher now policy guru at American Enterprise Institute who
blames feminists for over compensating with girls in schools (ie. Reviving
Ophelia) at the very time that they were naturally overcoming boys in
performance categories.  She says that teachers, mostly female, are favoring
activities and class studies that favor girls, like sitting still in early
years, and punishing boys for being boys.  Kindlon instead blamed fathers,
saying "Where are the men at Parent Teacher Assoc. meetings?  If you only
show up for the football and soccer games it doesn't take long for boys to
get the message."

The teaching profession has always been dominated by females.  So why is
that a factor now?  If it is, wouldn't hiring more male teachers help?  So
the 60 Minute story profiled Jefferson school in LA, perhaps a charter
school, because the kids wore polo shirts as uniforms, where the ratio of
male and female teachers is 50-50 and the kids are separated at class time.
In the boy's classes, the teachers use more physical stimulation to keep the
boys alert and focused.  The boys say it has helped them to be separated and
not worried about making mistakes in front of girls.  It has also helped to
have the football coach at this small school also teach math, or in another
citing, poetry.  Send the message.
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