Re: g_b To the moderators...

[raahu an]

Hello,
 
This shock comes to us when anyone abuses  and MORE SO when we enter into these chats etc. seeking basically a love based relationship [ ie. even if it is for sex].
 
I have experienced over a period of time both in predomininantly Indian as well as foreign sites many such guys and also guys exhibiting  varied forms of subtle  but significant  disregard for the other person as a human being.
 
It has made me understand  that after all even a gay individual is a human being and can exhibit the wide range of human idiosyncracies.
 
It will augur well for us if we realize this and not think that that every gay individual is humane, soft,  sensitive and loveable.
 
Crooks , ruffians and people with absolutely no conscience what so ever do exist here and it is imperative to keep this in mind and then proceed. But inspite of this, yes, you definitely could find your soul mate one day who could act as a balm for your existence.
 
R
 
4.8.2005Anand <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Dear moderators...I am a pretty quiet member of the groups. I dont usually do much morethan follow the happenings of our community through the wonderfulposts I get from here. I have to voice something right now though. Iam seriously offended by the way people feel they can chat online.Free speach aside I believe in basic decency and was ROCKED and shakenvery badly by the way I was talked to just recently by someone.I am a firm believer in justice. I do not believe that such languageshould be encouraged be looking the other way. I never talk to peoplethis way (I would never want to be talked to in this manner)...manner? where ARE manner's nowadays???Please read the following conversation, and if you see fit - heed myrequest by disclosing it to the groups - thereby - in the very least- INCONVENIENCING the culprit by making
 his ID possibly useless. Ifeel very strongly about this, I am not usually moved by anything -but such behaviour is INEXCUSABLE. The world and its denizens shouldbe FAR beyond such barbarisms by now.There is strong language in it, please feel free to edit it out. Iknow that I too let loose, but I hope it is understandable. In theleast, do tell me whether you plan to act or not.Most humbly and sincerely yours,Prakash...Prakash (2/08/2005 2:26:23 AM): hiPrakash (2/08/2005 2:26:25 AM): asl?am_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:26:38 AM): arre yaar everyday u will askasl kyaPrakash (2/08/2005 2:26:56 AM): ?Prakash (2/08/2005 2:26:57 AM): sorryPrakash (2/08/2005 2:26:59 AM): hePrakash (2/08/2005 2:27:00 AM): hiPrakash (2/08/2005 2:27:03 AM): i'm prakashPrakash (2/08/2005 2:27:07 AM): what's your name?Prakash (2/08/2005 2:27:22 AM): i have you on my list, but i dontrecall you,..Prakash (2/08/2005 2:27:27
 AM): that's why i askam_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:28:08 AM): i know u r from indiatimesam_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:28:16 AM): everytime u see my on the listu ask aslam_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:28:34 AM): thats why yahoo has given theoption to save some info of peopleam_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:28:37 AM): use itPrakash (2/08/2005 2:28:56 AM): i will, this time...Prakash (2/08/2005 2:29:07 AM): mind filling me in this one last timedear?am_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:29:11 AM): iam sid Prakash (2/08/2005 2:29:16 AM): sid?am_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:29:22 AM): 29 topPrakash (2/08/2005 2:29:25 AM): i know a sid from bangalore i thinkPrakash (2/08/2005 2:29:46 AM): have you ever sent me your pic?am_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:30:19 AM): noam_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:30:21 AM): iam from punPrakash (2/08/2005 2:30:30 AM): okayPrakash (2/08/2005 2:30:34 AM): name???Prakash (2/08/2005 2:30:37 AM): am_i_hot_or_r_u
 (2/08/2005 2:30:48 AM): abe chutia what does Sid meanif not the name??am_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:31:01 AM): do u always bore people likethis or what???Prakash (2/08/2005 2:31:06 AM): siddhartha?Prakash (2/08/2005 2:31:11 AM): lookam_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:31:14 AM): Sid is SidPrakash (2/08/2005 2:31:25 AM): is it not possible for you to chatwithout putting ppl down?am_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:31:47 AM): is it not possible for u to bemore proactive and get things in 1 time?am_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:31:54 AM): i hate repeating Prakash (2/08/2005 2:31:58 AM): if it isnt then i will erase you frommy list this time insted of putting it into the "rarely online group"am_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:32:11 AM): and all the time people ask"stats"am_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:32:38 AM): pls erase meam_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:33:27 AM): looks like people here donthave anything to talk about except asl &
 statsPrakash (2/08/2005 2:33:29 AM): if God has grace, you will fuck offand your own happiness one day, and you will remember how to betactfull at last once you have learned that being an asshole is nothow to livePrakash (2/08/2005 2:33:35 AM): so fuck off chutia Prakash (2/08/2005 2:33:38 AM): fuck yourselfam_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:33:52 AM): ok maderchod ki aulad i willfuck off u ugly pigam_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:35:02 AM): "Prakash" (12:55:38AM): yasure, one sec... and invite me to your cam am_i_hot_or_r_u (12:55:58AM): dont u shave??? "Prakash" (12:56:28 AM): yes i do, i letit growonce a month am_i_hot_or_r_u (12:56:35 AM): k u take care"Prakash"(12:56:42 AM): for variety - anyhow, may i see your cam now pleaseam_i_hot_or_r_u (12:56:59 AM): sorry we dont fit in "Prakash"(12:57:39 AM): that is fine, but i still would like to see yourcam/pic before you go, it is not fair of you to see me and
 disappearam_i_hot_or_r_u (12:58:03 AM): cause u r UGLY if thats what u wannahear u got it??? am_i_hot_or_r_u (12:58:16 AM): stop psetering peoplewho aint interested in u "Prakash" (12:58:18 AM): that isgood newsam_i_hot_or_r_u (12:58:25 AM): good bye am_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:35:16 AM): am_i_hot_or_r_u (12:59:28 AM):u must be pretty desperate to not take a hintam_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:35:34 AM): asshole i dont talk properlyto u cause u r fuckin ugly------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> DonorsChoose. A simple way to provide underprivileged children resources often lacking in public schools. Fund a student project in NYC/NC
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