Dear Play safe, let's get over the drama of the moment and play safe, I mean think rationally. He has popped the word. This can only mean one of 2 things, either he's sincere, or he is not. Both ways the best thing is that your being in Germany gives you all the time to find out. Get a mobile and text him twice a day about romantic things. If he gets sick of it after some time, you know he was playing around, and you have the time and space of your choosing to dump him. If he sends back 3 replies in response to your 2, then he is a propah bet. Keep up with internet and chats. Call up. Keep the romance or the pretence of it going to see how serious he is. Send photos of your outings with other guys in Germany and see how he reacts. If the fact that he is not getting a bonk propels him the next female, you have done wisely in being away. Let him know that you find him unworthy and dump him before he dumps you. Get out smelling like the victor and find the next right guy to fall for. Else let the distances increase the desire and when you meet, bond and bonk, submissively or otherwise. The point is use the circumstances at hand to your advantage, and yes, get out of the drama of the moment. Its not ironic, its life.
Best, Aditya Bondyopadhyay -----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of play safe Sent: Saturday, October 29, 2005 9:51 PM To: [email protected] Subject: g_b How ironic Hi guys... I was madly in love with my best friend. 2 years back , the day when I realised I was in love with him coincided with the day when he told me he loved this female and he proposed her and now they are going around toghether... the follwing was horrible for me fighting my depression....For me he was the most good looking man and someone whose presence was just good enough for the adrelinine to flow through my veins.... i would be squirming in his presence and a natural feeling of submission even though i have always been a top..I bolding confessed to him whatever i felt and he accepted me the way i am however he stricly stuck to being straight as he did not like the big picture of gays..Soon things began to change and also the priorities. At the time when I was struggling to get a grip over my life our friendship eventhough strong had a void between us.After a year when I realised that so long as he stays in my life I will not be able to look upto anyother person as he was always my first priority I decided to move out of the country . I applied to a university and was selected for the masters programme. 3 months ago I was busy putting things into place to go abroad when he told me that he broke up with his girlfriend as their relationship was going through a hard phase. He used to call me more often now and usually around 2 in the night when he could not sleep and chat for more than an hour. I was more than happy to be there for him. I tried my best to bring them together but things did not work. The day finally arrived when I was at the airport and had to say au revoir to all. As i sat in the plane I called him for the last time totally choked. I told him I loved him andwill miss him a lot. And for the first time he said those words that I craved to hear from him all my life. Those three words that mean so much. I was half determined to jump of the plane and run to him in his arms. Life can be so unfair sometimes. all the while when I was in Mumbai I craved to hear those words and when I hear them I cannot experience the physical warmth of the person that I loved so much. Here I am now in Germany trying to cope with my heart left behind in Mumbai. I know those words did not mean that He loved me the way I wanted him to but nevertheless I am happy to constantly hear those words ringing in my ears... How Ironic!!! ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make Yahoo! your home page http://us.click.yahoo.com/dpRU5A/wUILAA/yQLSAA/WfTolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. Post:- [email protected] Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Classifieds for personal advertisements are back on www.gaybombay.info site. Please exercise restraint in the language of your personal advertisement. Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
