I am 100% with you. Please refer to my post about "marraige - a liberal view" and you will find the thinking is very similar. I wonder how only one person reacted to that provocative post of mine, and that too he was agreeing with me! A
Karna Mehta <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: just a thought...another opinion not expressed so far... gays are being critisized for marraying and spoiling a girl's life. Are the gays the only one doing this? How many hetrosexuals spoil girls life calmly by entering into a loveless marraige due to parental pressures,need for money,tying up two families and so many other numerous reasons. I am not justifying either case. But only highlighting that only the gays do not enter a loveless marraige. In case of hetrosexuals the loveless marraige may account for more than 50% in case of India.Just mull it over. Amongst hetrosexuals the loveless marraige numbers must be staggering. Again not all gays are that educated or self confident, or financially independent or that courageous to face society by coming out or that independent to face life alone. Gays are also human with all their fallacies. In this discussion we are not being practical in my humble opinion. Thetre can be no one view on gay marraiges. Circumstances, personality of the gay, financial conditions force many to compromise on so many issues that is against their consience . But he has to be practical to continue with life the way he can handle it. And not all men can handle or are capable of handling a given situation in the best/moral way. comprmise and being practical is LIFE. And so the gay or hetrosexual choose a path that they can handle. And in my opinion no one has a right to pass a judgement on this unless he helps the person to overcome or alter the conditions dictating his choice. Am I wrong?..... Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Unsubscribe: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] (attachments are removed in the digest mode. You get one or two digest mails per day containing all emails, minus pictures/attachments) No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Rss feed: http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/maillist.xml Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Classifieds for personal advertisements are back on www.gaybombay.info site. Please exercise restraint in the language of your personal advertisement. To post mates/freinds wanted log on to http://pub35.bravenet.com/classified/show.php?usernum=2998156902&cpv=2 Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
