Hello
I'm totally agree with both shatru and sam raj...this disscussion should not be
end. it should go on and on..
Why sex is more important than friendship and love in homosexuality? can anyone
answer me?
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From: sam raj <wanderer...@yahoo.com>
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Friday, 27 February, 2009 2:04:14 PM
Subject: Re: g_b Re: A Query
hi one and all
After going thro mails in response to shatru's, i wish to appeal members
through moderator to narrate their experiences as students about 'advances'
towards them by teachers or otherwise also.
Rohit
--- On Fri, 2/20/09, shatru_lovely <shatru_lovely@ yahoo.in> wrote:
From: shatru_lovely <shatru_lovely@ yahoo.in>
Subject: g_b Re: A Query
To: gay_bom...@yahoogro ups.com
Date: Friday, February 20, 2009, 5:01 PM
My experience is most of the gays expect only sex and not a
friendship. They expect you to be a male-prostitute and expect only
sex and nothing else. Naturally if you deny that they immediately
end the relationship.
Sorry I am too blunt.. At young age I got an acidic experience. Your
views and experience may differ.
----Shatru ( Shatrughna)
--- In gay_bom...@yahoogro ups..com, "boyfriend_pune"
<boyfriend_pune@ ...> wrote:
>
> hello
> following could be the reasons:
> - that person when starts friendship may be in good position, but
after
> few months when there are svere up-downs in his life, so while
facing
> them he cannot share it with you ( one may take it in wrong way )
> particularly if it is financial or marriage problem. then he is
not in
> contact with you, or keeps mum. when that phase is over, he may
> approach to you, but already u misunderstood him.
> - some times he may afraid that the family members will come to
know
> about his gayness, when he is in contact with you. to avoid
> complications better to keep mum.
>
> - it happend with me. when i joined this grup, i came to know
about two
> persons. before that i didnt know that they were gay. i started
> communicating thr email with them. am afraid, if i will personally
meet
> them and refer this grup, my family members and scoiety around
will
> come to know our gayness. neither of us is out.
> - many a times am in financial trouble, but if i share it with
friends
> from the grup they me feel that i want money from them. i have to
face
> my problem.
> - with few members i communicated, but letter not, as our status
was
> very different. it shuld not happen that they feel that i am
seeking
> some kind of help from them all the time.
>
>
> - aaj phir jine ki tamanna hai
> aaj phir marane ka irada hai
>
> regards
>
> --- In gay_bom...@yahoogro ups.com, Sanjay Lulla
<sanjay_lulla2000@ >
> wrote:
> >
> > I have a query. I have observed this in gay people that one day
the
> appear to be best of friends, all ahhs n oh ohs hugs and one fine
day
> without rhyme or reason they are not your frnds nemore. I am not
> talking abt being in relationship or fuck buddies but of
> 'friendship& #39;. I say in our community since I personally
have
> experinced this. My quest is why do they behave like this. One can
go
> crazy thinking what went wrong? God help them. Any comments?
> >
>
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