Well shatru, if they are not paying you they are not expecting you to be a prostitute in the first place because prostitution and/or sex work is directly linked to a transaction in lieu of sex. In other words you used the word prostitute to highlight something that you do not approve of, even though the usage itself is incorrect in the context. So it prove that you have a prejudice against prostitutes, which stems from reasons that I cannot fathom, for no prostitute seems to have targeted you on this list.
Bigots like you who hate merely for hate's sake are a blot on the inclusive list that this one hopes to become and probably will if brain dead morons like you decide at some point that it may be a good thing to think before you spout your prejudiced derogatory sentiments about an entire professional class. Prostitues and/or sex workers are human beings with dignity who are merely trying to earn a decent living by selling a product/service and meeting a market demand. You have no right to load this profession with your idiotic bigotry. Aditya Bondyopadhyay On 20/02/2009, shatru_lovely <shatru_lov...@yahoo.in> wrote: > > My experience is most of the gays expect only sex and not a > friendship. They expect you to be a male-prostitute and expect only > sex and nothing else. Naturally if you deny that they immediately > end the relationship. > Sorry I am too blunt. At young age I got an acidic experience. Your > views and experience may differ. > > ----Shatru ( Shatrughna) > > --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com <gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com>, > "boyfriend_pune" > <boyfriend_p...@...> wrote: > > > > hello > > following could be the reasons: > > - that person when starts friendship may be in good position, but > after > > few months when there are svere up-downs in his life, so while > facing > > them he cannot share it with you ( one may take it in wrong way ) > > particularly if it is financial or marriage problem. then he is > not in > > contact with you, or keeps mum. when that phase is over, he may > > approach to you, but already u misunderstood him. > > - some times he may afraid that the family members will come to > know > > about his gayness, when he is in contact with you. to avoid > > complications better to keep mum. > > > > - it happend with me. when i joined this grup, i came to know > about two > > persons. before that i didnt know that they were gay. i started > > communicating thr email with them. am afraid, if i will personally > meet > > them and refer this grup, my family members and scoiety around > will > > come to know our gayness. neither of us is out. > > - many a times am in financial trouble, but if i share it with > friends > > from the grup they me feel that i want money from them. i have to > face > > my problem. > > - with few members i communicated, but letter not, as our status > was > > very different. it shuld not happen that they feel that i am > seeking > > some kind of help from them all the time. > > > > > > - aaj phir jine ki tamanna hai > > aaj phir marane ka irada hai > > > > regards > > > > --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com <gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com>, Sanjay > Lulla > <sanjay_lulla2000@> > > wrote: > > > > > > I have a query. I have observed this in gay people that one day > the > > appear to be best of friends, all ahhs n oh ohs hugs and one fine > day > > without rhyme or reason they are not your frnds nemore. I am not > > talking abt being in relationship or fuck buddies but of > > 'friendship'. I say in our community since I personally > have > > experinced this. My quest is why do they behave like this. One can > go > > crazy thinking what went wrong? God help them. Any comments? > > > > > > > > -- Do not print this mail unless really necessary. Save paper, save trees..!! If you loose your way while SCUBA diving, the safest direction to head for is UP..!!!
