vertexclique commented on pull request #8664:
URL: https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/8664#issuecomment-733966928


   Personally, I think violation against me also refers to the code of conduct 
even in two occurrences:
   
   > Be empathetic, welcoming, friendly, and patient. We work together to 
resolve conflict, assume good intentions, and do our best to act in an 
empathetic fashion. We may all experience some frustration from time to time, 
but we do not allow frustration to turn into a personal attack. A community 
where people feel uncomfortable or threatened is not a productive one. We 
should be respectful when dealing with other community members as well as with 
people outside our community.
   
   I tried my best to assume good intentions. Even there is no problem in PRs I 
have received comments which are not meant to bring any productivity but 
changing the entire aim of the PR.
   https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/8609#discussion_r523458622
   https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/8665#issuecomment-727847232
   But preventing PRs and keep raising debates(which are not related to the aim 
of the PR) in every PR is not what I expect as neither empathetic nor welcoming 
behavior.
   
   > Be collaborative. Our work will be used by other people, and in turn we 
will depend on the work of others. When we make something for the benefit of 
the project, we are willing to explain to others how it works, so that they can 
build on the work to make it even better. Any decision we make will affect 
users and colleagues, and we take those consequences seriously when making 
decisions.
   
   Which I did:
   * explained the safety of the bit operations
   * the other features that previous pr 
(https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/8598) and this pr 
(https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/8664) brought in. They come intrinsically 
with the change.
   * And in turn, it turned into a benchmarking problem:
   https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/8598#issuecomment-723326224
   and the actual point of all these has been missed. I have tried to explain 
it in various ways but some got me, some didn't.
   
   I was thinking 3 months ago the project was going in a nice direction, I 
think it got prevented somehow and now it is not going very well from my point 
of view.
   
   Moreover in general also Apache Foundation's values described here not quite 
held in my opinion. 
https://www.apache.org/foundation/how-it-works.html#meritocracy 
   
   So, finally, I would like to say that, I am totally ok with not committing 
to this project. Feel free to close this PR.


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