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Puppy love, Mummy love & Daddy love

The only daughter 40,  settled in Europe had this beautiful puppy.  They loved 
the puppy so
much that when the puppy is sick or stops eating etc  it will upset the whole 
family. One day,
while the  family car was taken to the garage for servicing, the dog suddenly 
fell ill, so
they called a minicab to take the dog to the local vet(erinary). 

The aged parents had two other sons, both married and well settled in Europe 
too. 
Whereabouts of one of them was  not known to the parents as  he failed to keep 
in touch with
them for over 15 years (but it was understood from a reliable source the son is 
in France 
with his family of 5).

Back home (Goa),  the father is dying and the mother send messages to every one 
(wherever
possible) but no one got back to her and the father eventually died. The 
funeral took place
with no children.

The mother is all alone now with no support at all from her 3 children.

One day I met this Konkani speaking daughter..
I told her the sorry state of her mother. She replied ‘HANV KITEM KORUM ? MAKA 
KAZAR KELEM ANI
HANV BHAIR PODDLEM.  PUTANI APLEA MAIM-PAIK POLLOUNK ZAI’
(What should I do ? Once I am married, I am out of it. The sons should look 
after them now).

Again, while the daughter was in Goa staying in her bungalow, I requested her 
to keep her
mother with them for some days, for this she replied ‘MHOJEA GHOVAKODDE 
VINCHARCHEM  POTOLEM
..’
(I will have to consult my husband on this..)

Few years later, the mother also dies.  Again, no children at the funeral.

 
To understand this fully, here, I give you three tests:
(Pl read the above 2-3 times (if necessary) before taking these tests).

Test 1:
Have you any pets like dogs etc ? If so, try to weigh by putting you dog/puppy 
on one side and
your parents on the other side.  Check which one is heavier i.e. puppy love or 
parents love ?

 
Test 2:
No pets ? No problem.
Put your right hand right into your conscious and ask your self this ‘What 
about me or my
parents?’

Test 3.
Just stand right in front of a mirror and check if you can  see your own CLEAN 
reflection 


Finally,  we must not forget our own children are watching our every steps and 
that  they will
treat their parents the same way we treated ours.

 
AIZ MAKA FALEAM TUKA  (AMFT)


 

Note:
- By writing this, I am particularly targeting all NRIs  or NRGs sons & 
daughters all over the
world
- Dedicated to World Senior Citizens Day (Oct.1).




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