JOHN MONTEIRO wrote: my mother was BORN ... her parents relationship was out of wedlock, similarly my own mother's relationship with Casimiro Emerito Teles Jordao Rozo Monteiro was was also the same. -- Selma Carvalho wrote: Legitimacy, illegitimacy are all man-made labels foisted on people. A piece of paper does not legitimize the existence of a human being nor does it give legitimacy to the union that created that human being. A person born out of wedlock might have been conceived with much more love and passion than one born within a marriage contract.
-- jc's response: Well said Selma. You are absolutely correct. The marriage license is just a paper. What is more important is the relationship which brings forth the child (whether license paper present or absent) It is my belief that John Monteiro has many personal demons which he needs to take care of outside this public forum. I also submit that he is unlikely to have had consent from either his mother or his grand-parents to have their privacy and confidentiality breached on GoaNet. If (as you John have related earlier on GoaNet) you have another sibling, by the above statement, you are casting serious aspersions on the character of the very person who looked after you i.e. your mother....as well as on her parents. That makes you IMHO an absolutely ungrateful person. What is wrong with you people who want to tell everybody here about personal details of your parents, married/unmarried, sudra/ chardo/brahman etc. Get a hold of yourself, guys. Do you really believe that the rest of us care enough to know this personal junk? I normally advise those who feel this repetitive urge of emesis - to do so privately in the washroom. Why vomit in public? Unless you have a psychosomatic problem. If you need professional help - go get it. jc
