Well done Joe by bringing this message to Parents in this forum. It is very important for the aging and helpless Parents and I am of the same opinion, I never fail to spread the similar message to others parents as I saw and witnessed this kind of suffering at the hand of even very loving and God fearing children. Goa netters should bring in more such live stories which are plenty happening in the present mode of life so that every one is cautioned prior to the disaster strikes. Parents should also desist dividing all the property both movable and immovable till their death since after their death children automatically become the heirs of their complete property in any way. Many Parents are doing the mistake by dividing and transferring the complete property in the name of their children as they love them so much and also in order to avoid any hustle after their death and once the children get their share they neglect their parents and fail their responsibility to look after their Parents. They even push them and their responsibility on the other son and other son on the other son/daughter and so on, and in the bargain they neither have the property nor even a shelter to live in just like it is narated by you from the said drama. Therefore it is of utmost necessity that the Parents should well plan and save sufficient enough and/or keep aside some of the property, if not all in their own name till they are no more, for in any event they can make use of it till their time come to go to heavenly abode. God help the aging helpless Parents. Elvino.
original message.............. From: JoeGoaUk <[email protected]> To: [email protected] Subject: [Goanet] A message to parents ?Don?t part with everything you have..? Message-ID: <[email protected]> Content-Type: text/plain; charset=utf-8 A message to parents ?Don?t part with everything you have..? Parents? responsibilities increase from the day one when a child is born. We try our best to give them 'the best'? be it a dress material, good education, cycle, mobile, motor bike, car etc etc We may even part with everything we have?including mortgaging our houses for the love of our children. When we do that there is always a hope that our children will never let us down should we need their help particularly in our retirement or old age. ? But in this household, such hopes are shattered. The father when received notices for repossession of house (for not keeping up with mortgage repayments) approached his son and the daughter, both send him back empty handed. As if this shock was not dreadful enough, the son-in-law (a wolf in sheep?s clothing) approached the father (Sasupai) and fraudulently obtained his signature to make the house his own. What options does the father have now other than living in the streets? He dies blaming not anyone but himself saying ?I have gone wrong in my own books of accounts? Where no provisions were made for unexpected loses such as bad debts etc ? ?Don?t part with everything you have? was the strong message to parents by Anil-Olga in their tiatr ?Mhozo Hixob Chuklo? staged at Panjim Market on 4th May 2011 on the occasion of Holy Cross Feast (organised by Holy Cross Associantion, Fish Market Panjim, Goa).
