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Perjalanan III
[10]/The Journey III [10]
"Allohul Jamiil
Yuhibbul Jamal" "Alloh itu Maha
Indah dan Menyukai Keindahan". Sedikit
kuceritakan, Bahwa dalam
prosesku bersama penganut Kristen yang taat, Kurang lebih 4
tahun sudah kujalani, kemudian................. Tuhan
memperlihatkan keindahanNya lagi kepadaku, Maksudku, salah
satu keindahan dari ciptaanNya.(he..he..he..) Lewat di depan mata
ketika sedang ada di dalam kampus, Dan yang namanya
mata (maklum matanya lelaki...kata lagunya Nicky Astrea...he..he..), yang
namanya mata tak mau melepaskan pandangan. Jadi menurut hukum
logika dan hukum agama juga ndak salah
yaa...(he..he..he..) Masih di pandangan
pertama khok...he..he..he.... Maka mulailah
proses berikutnya kulalui, Aku ingat ketika
pertama kali mengatakan padanya, "Satu syarat kalau
kamu memang mau berjalan bersamaku" Rasanya sungguh
tepat kalau satu syarat itu kusampaikan. Aku teringat ketika
Budha Sidartha Gautama mendapatkan kesadarannya, Anaknya baru saja
lahir, Isterinya baru saja lelah melahirkan, Beliau berpamitan
untuk pergi bertapa. Ayah beliau raja
Biidzinillah, ketika beliau
pergi, tak seorangpun melihatnya. Ya...anak-istreinya
ditinggalkan untuk pergi bertapa. AKu ingat ketika
Muhammad dalam rumah tangganya, Berapa kali
Khodijah ditinggal oleh beliau untuk pergi ke gua Hiro. Kadang seminggu
tidak pulang, Kadang sebulan
tidak pulang, kadang 40 hari
tidak pulang, bahkan pernah hampir dua
tahun tidak pulang. Nabi Muhammad sudah
siap menghadapi itu semua, tapi bagaimanakah
yang ditinggalkannya ????? Bagaimanakah siti
Khodijah ????? Bagaimanakah
seandainya beliau tidak siap menghadapi itu semua ????? he...he..he... sampai ada
terlintas pemikiran, dilihat dari satu
sisi, sebenarnya yang
hebat adalah Siti Khodijah, iya kalau Nabi
Muhammad mulai muda memang siap menghadapi kesulitan-kesulitan di dalam
perjuangan, baik ruhani maupun perjuangan jasmani, Sedangkan siti
Khodijah yang tidak mengalami langsung, tidak memproses diri langsung, tidak
terjun secara langsung seperti yang dilakukan Nabi
Muhammad, Awalnya adalah
orang biasa, kaya, serba berkecukupan, mestilah menerima
segala kondisi dan situasi yang dihadapinya saat itu, prihatin
kondisinya. Muhammad mulai awal
sudah siap, sedangkan Khodijah
berangkatnya dari tidak siap menjadi siap. Maka Jangan heran,
ketika Aisyah cemburu karena Nabi Muhammad sering sekali menyebut-nyebut nama
SIti Khodijah, dengan wajah agak
merah padam Nabi bersabda,"Sekali-kali Alloh tidak menggantikan Siti Khodijah
yang lebih baik darinya, di saat orang-orang mendustakanku, dialah yang pertama
bersaksi kepadaku. Disaat orang-orang memboikotku, seluruh hartanya kugunakan
untuk perjuangan syiarku, disaat semua orang menghinaku, dialah orang yang
menggugah semangatku." Selama beliau masih
beristeri Khodijah, sekali-kali tidaklah beliau beristeri lagi, selama 15 tahun
bersama siti Khodijah. Ummul Mukminin yang
tiada bandingannya. Akupun ingat kisah
Nabi Nuh dengan isterinya, Isteri dan anknya
akan tenggelam, ketika beliau akan menolong, datanglah teguran dari Alloh
SWT, kata Nuh,"Yaa Alloh
bukankah mereka isteri dan anakkku ?" Alloh
berfirman,"Wahai Nuh, sesungguhnya kaummu yang tidak mengikuti kamu adalah bukan
kerabatmu, demikian juga anak dan isterimu, yang tidak mengikuti seruanmu adalah
bukan kerabatmu". Beratnya jadi
isteri.................... Singkat
cerita....... Karena ciptaan
Alloh yang Jamal atau Jamil ini mau dan setuju, maka kulangsungkan
perintah Alloh bersamanya........... Tak perlu
kuceritakan bagaimana beratnya proses yang kuhadapi. Hanya saran saja
bagi yang belum....he..he..he... Bersegeralah........ Separo rahasia agama ada di balik perintah "fankihu".....
bersambung..
Journey III
(10) �Allahul Jamiil
Yuhibbul Jamal�
�Allah is the
Most Beautiful Thing and loves the Beautiful
Thing�. I�m going to
tell you a little, That I went
through my process with a pious christian, More or less
four years I had been through, Then... My Lord showed
me His another beatiful creature, I mean that
was a one of His beautiful creatures.(He..he..he..) She passed me
by when we were in campus, Who could
decide my eyes were amused (it�s natural
men�s eyes are being like this, huh?!...said the lyric of Nicky Astrea,
right?!), And for the
sake of these eyes could not turn away from this beautiful
scene, So, if it
referred to the law of logic and the law of religion, that was not
wrong... (that was
natural..., wasn�t that?) That was still
in at first sight... Then I started
out to cross the next process, I remember of
what I said to her for the first time, �One condition
if you are really want to be with me.� I felt it was
proper to state my condition to her. It reminded me
on Budha Sidarta Gautama got his consciousness, His son was
just born, and his wife was exhausted to give
birth, He begged to
take a leave to achieve through asceticism. His father was
the king of India, and called out the troops to stop
Budha, Biidzinillah, When he left,
nobody saw him. That�s
right...His son and wife were left by him to achieve through
asceticism. And I
remembered of the story of Muhammad in his
household, How many times
Khodijah was left by him to go to the cave of Hira. Moreover he
sometimes did not go home for a week, Or even for a
month, for forty days, And even
almost two years he had not ever gone home. The prophet
was ready to face all of this, But what about
Khodijah whom had been left by him????? How would that
be if she was not ready enough to face it????? Until there
was something had crossed my mind in a flash, If we see from
one side, Honestly, who
the great was Siti Khodijah, It�s no
surprise anymore if the prophet Muhammad who did
it, Because he did
it since he was young starting out to face the
difficulties to struggle
the life, either it was a mental struggle or
physic, Meanwhile Siti
Khodijah had not been through it directly, And had not
processed herself directly, And had not
plunged herself directly into as what Muhammad had, She was
formerly a common person like everyone else who was rich
and well to do, She had to
accept any kind of condition and situation which were
faced by her, She had to
concern their condition. Since from the
beginning, Muhammad had been ready, Meanwhile
Khodijah had started out her life from not ready
became ready. So don�t be
shocked if I�m telling you that, Aisyah was
jealous over the prophet Muhammad had mentioned
the name of Siti Khodijah for many times
over and over again, With red blush
decorated his cheek, the prophet stated, �Allah will
never put other better women in a position which was a
place of Siti Khodijah, when that time
a number of people were against me, betrayed me, When everybody
boycotted me, all her
properties were used by me to achieve the mission, when everybody
mocked me, she was the
one who raised my spirit up again.� During he was
still a husband of Khodijah, He had not had
a wife anymore for 15 years along with Khodijah. She is an
incomparable Ummul Mukminin. Then I
remembered of the story of the prophet Noah with his
wife, While his wife
and his child were going to drown into the sea, he was going
to help them, but then
suddenly there was a warning from God, Allah SWT, The prophet
said in a pity way,�Allah, aren�t they my wife and
child?� Allah
spoke, �Hear me,
Noah,...the people who don�t want to walk along with
you, are not your
relative, it also includes your wife and child, who don�t want
to perform your order, they are not relative of
yours.� Well, I�m
telling you honestly...obviously..., It�s so hard
to be a wife... In brief
word... Because of the
will and agreement between the creatures of Allah, Jamal and
Jamil, Then we
performed the order of Allah, With
her... I don�t have
to tell you about how hard the
process I have been through. This is just a
suggestion for anyone who hasn�t
performed it yet...he..he..he.. Come
quick... A part of
secrecy of religion is the other side of the order
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