cuba referkan ustaz2 ataupun tuan guru....sebabnya
nabi berpesan kira anak perempuan umur sudah cukup
umur nikahlah ia dgn segera....

-----Original Message-----
From: fizi [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Wednesday, March 02, 2005 2:06 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: Bismillah [hidayahnet] pertanyaan: restu ibu





assalamualaikum,

sayaa ingin bertanya sekiranya ibu tidak restu
perkahwinan apa hukumya?

situasi: si gadis mengenali sesorang lelaki dan rasa
dah sampai masa utk berkahwin. tetapi si ibu tidak
restu dgn alasan tidak suka  kpd pihak lelaki. tetapi
si ibu tiada pula calon yg lain. dan si gadis  rasa
sudah sampai masanya utk dia berkahwin. si gadis dan
si teruna sudah masing2 berkerjaya dan umur sudah
hampir 30 tahun. tahap pelajaran si gadis lebih tinggi
sedikit dari tahap pelajaran si teruna.apa hukumnya
kalau si gadis dan si teruna tadi meneruskan hajat 
berkahwin tanpa restu ibu si gadis tadi? 

ibu bapa si teruna telah bagi restu. bapa si gadis
pula tidak kisah(tetapi bapa si gadis ada sedikit
masalah kesihatan/fikiran). keluarga pihak si gadis
hanya mengikut kata ibu si gadis.

semoga mendapat nasihat dan panduan dari semua. terima kasih.


                
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