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PAS : KE ARAH PEMERINTAHAN ISLAM YANG ADIL
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Assalamualaikum
Ini satu cerita dari seorang boss tentang office
romance..unedited version...
Kalau rajin sila la bagi komen untuk kebaikan semua...
Wassalam
Adam
--XXX wrote:
> Assalamualaikum Sdr Adam.
>
> Huumm...interesting juga "persoalan" yang u utarakan
> ni. Seems that u
> get a lot of these responses eh? Boleh buat
> part-time marriage
> counselling lepas ni..he..he..he.
> Actually, I tak lah pandai sangat nak beri nasihat
> kepada persoalan
> yang u dah utarakan tu. But, I would like to share a
> somewhat similar
> story to what u've posted. I trust u to keep my
> identity anonymous.
> The story goes this way. I have a male colleague in
> the office who
> joined the company at about the same time i did. He
> was posted to a
> branch office while I was stationed at the head
> office. We often met
> during HOffice & branch monthly meetings / brain
> storming sessions in
> KL. At night pulak MD selalulah ajak all of us pi
> dinner so that he got
> to meet us in a more casual session. So, biasa
> lah...sembang-sembang
> pasal work, family etc.
> Nak di jadikan cerita...macam hindustan pulak...I
> got promoted and was
> heading a new department also in the head office.
> This mamat pulak minta
> tukar wanting to be my subordinate...When my MD
> showed me his file...I
> thought... well, not bad juga lah...pretty
> innovative...appraisal...for
> 2 yrs berturut-turut more than 80%. Lagi pun when i
> observed him during
> our monthly sessions...he's not too bad lah. So I
> agreed to him being my
> subordinate. Muka..tak de lah macam Shah Rukh
> Khan....biasa lah muka
> melayu. Dressing pun tak lah power...shirt
> tu...setakat Alan Delon or
> Pierre Cardin. Tapi kengkadang colour combination
> out...ada ka.. pakai
> seluaq kotak-kotak & baju belang-belang. Dah lah I
> ni astigmatism level
> pretty high....pening kalu hari yg dia pakai baju
> lagu tu. So...as a
> boss I kena juga lah perbetulkan sense of dressing
> dia, bagi tips sikit
> on how to dress well, cara nak impress clients on
> first meet...bukan apa
> bila jumpaq client nanti...tak lah dia ni rasa out
> of place sikit. I am
> the type yg very particular about dressing, colour
> combination, shoes
> etc. on top of excellence on the job. Relationship
> boss & subordinate
> biasalah kan...kadang-kadang mamat ni kenaq tibai
> juga lah dgn i...bila
> masa dok buat kerja merapu tu...tapi kalu time yg
> dia dok buat bagus
> tu...i puji juga lah. He deserved it....I have no
> problems in
> recognizing his work. I work pretty well with
> him...most of the times he
> understands what I need where work is concern. Kami
> ada juga lah pi
> outstation sama utk audit the brances. Dah tu kalu
> nak bawak staff
> perempuan...macam-macam cerita terpaksa dengar
> dulu...I breast-feeding
> baby lah...my mother in law is coming to town
> lah...my husband cannot
> sleep alone lah ...u name it...i've heard them
> all!!! So..tak dak lain
> pilihan....bawak lah si mamat ni.
> Soo...nak jadi cerita....bila we dah agak kerap pi
> outstation sama...pi
> jumpaq client sama...ramai lah orang
> speculate....macam KLSE pulak
> dah...I tak kisah...my relationship with him
> STRICTLY professional. Of
> course I'm married and I have two beautiful
> children. My husband is also
> pretty successfull in his engineering career. Mamat
> ni dah berkahwin
> juga lah...ada anak seorang. His wife is a school
> teacher. Ok lah nice
> lady. Rupa nak da lah apa yg kurang. Selalu pakai
> baju kurung bertudung.
> He has met my husband at company dinners & my open
> house. I have also
> met his wife at the clinic once. Termalu-malu juga
> lah...yelah kalu i
> pun I would behave the same way...sama-sama ambil
> ubat dgn suami punya
> boss. (hey...bosses get sick too ok)
> One fine sunny morning, he came into my office
> wanting to speak to me
> urgently. Masa tu..I was in the middle of a
> discussion with the MD.
> Lama juga lag coz' MD ni jenis yg very detailed
> semua benda dia nak
> tau...From inside my room I could see him pacing up
> & down ourside.
> Dalam hati...kesian juga ke mamat ni...apa benda lah
> yg dia nak habaq
> tak boleh tunggu ni. He had to wait for almost two
> hours until he
> finally got to see me. My MD keluaq je...dia pun
> masuk. He looked tired
> & troubled. I asked him..what's wrong...ada apa-apa
> yg dah terjadi ke?
> He said, "ADA". I asked him, "What happened....is it
> u ke, family u ke?
> He told me, "Something happened to me sometime
> back...and now I really
> dah tak boleh tahan lagi dah." Dalam kepala i lots
> of flash thoughts ran
> through...mamat ni sakit ke...aku dok bagi dia kerja
> teruk sangat
> ke....gaji dia tak cukup ke....dia nak resign dah
> ke... Anyway, I buat
> normal lah..and I asked him, "Cakap lah mana tau I
> can help u ke." Dia
> kata, "Menang lah u can help me...it's about u." I
> confronted him and
> said, "Why.... u cannot work with me lagi ke..have i
> done anything
> towards u ? " He said, "Tak...i want to tell you
> that...I LOVE YOU!!!"
> Haa...terkejut beruk sat....nak terpelanting coffee
> I that moment. I
> said to him, "What????" He said, "Betul, XXX,
> (that's what my staff call
> me) I have loved you from the moment we went for
> orientation dulu tu. "
> I dok kata, "That was a long time ago that
> orientation...I tak perasan
> pun u masa tu." Honest....i never knew he existed
> back then.
> So...di pendekkan cerita...kalu nak cerita semua
> besok lusa pun tak
> habis. Puas juga lah nak menasihatkan mamat ni. My
> focus was his family
> & his work. He complained of his wife tak pandai
> jaga hati...tak tau
> pakai baju coordinated like me...tak tau
> drive...serba serbi tak tau
> lah. Lepas tu marriage dia ni arranged marriage.
> Wowo..ini sudah kes
> berat. Banyak lah curahan perasaan yg di curah kan
> kepada i....for the
> first time in my life...I really tak tau nak buat
> macamana. Well, he's a
> nice mamat...kalu nak terus-terus reject him...tak
> ke berkecai lebur
> hati dia. Kalu nak di...sambut perasaan
> nya...issh...mengarut lah....pak
> cik kat rumah tu nak pi letak mana & wife dia nak
> hantaq mana...dah tu
> company policy...memang tak bagi employees in the
> same dept kahwin. So
> kalu seorang kenaq beralah...minta tukaq ke...quit
> ke....ishhhhh ini
> betul-betul dah bab mengarut. Hari-hari I dok
> councelling dia...focus on
> your wife...bagi dia ideas...macamana nak bercinta
> dgn wife dia pulak.
> Yang tak best nya tu...bila kita bagi dia
> ideas...dia dok kata...u
> selalu ke dok buat gini dgn "pak cik" u.
> Kureeeng...punya orang...kita
> nak tolong dia...dia pulak...berangan dgn kita.
> Disamping itu...i always
> nasihat dia....jangan tinggal his prayers...pi surau
> malam-malam
> jumaat...baca yassin...mengaji quran....minta
> petunjuk dari tuhan.
> Berdoa agar kita tak terpedaya oleh godaan
> syaitan....
> Moral of the story is...do not under estimate work
> relationships. We
> spend 8 hrs or more at work...tu tak kira yg
> outstation & working late
> lagi.
> How much time do we actually spend at home with our
> husbands or wives?
> Akibat nya yg kat office tu jadik lebih desirable
> dari yg di rumah. Tak
> kisah lah yg educated ke tidak...samada clerk ke,
> executive ke, GM ke,
> secretary ke....semua nya boleh tergoda. Jadi
> sebelum berlarutan...talk
> to some one...it's not easy though. Bab-bab perasaan
> ni....jangan
> main-main daaa.
> Pasangan wife cun & husband handsome dan income
> stable tak semestinya
> menjanjikan kebahagian keakhir hayat. Godaan banyak.
> Yang pakai baju
> body hugging...yang dressing smart...yang bau after
> shave
> mengancam...... semua ada. Biasa lah..bila dah lama
> kahwin tu..."zest"
> nya berkurangan. Kalu kat office ni...discussions
> nya in a more relaxed
> environment...ada times nya heated up...ada time nya
> full of jokes &
> fun. The opposite happens kat rumah tu....firm
> decision making
> process...go through anak-anak punya school
> books...children's exams
> lah.....abang complain coz' adik buangkan digimon
> abang keluar tingkap
> lah...
> Jadi bila kat office tu kita lupa sat pada
> benda-benda kat rumah ni.
> Ha...masa-masa gini lah cinta senang nak
> berputik....bukan cinta
> sebenarnya....tapi INFATUATION. So be careful lah...
> perkara ni antara
> NAK dengan TAK NAK je.
> Tentang mamat tu....well, masih working in the same
> company with me. He
> asked for a transfer and I supported his
> application. I even spoke to my
> MD personnally (tak lah ceritakan perasaan dia tu
> pada i...strictly on
> his work & his potentials in the company) We even
> gave him a new
> assignment. Sent him for comprehensive training. We
> still see each
> other. He still comes to my room for a cup of
> coffee. Situation nya
> sekarang ni...I have become his good buddy. Dengar
> kabar ada girlfriend
> baru...i don't ask much about his personal life
> unless dia sendiri yg
> beritau. Kira kan nasib baik jugalah coz' he could
> be saved and he's
> much happier now and I feel happy for him too....
>
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