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Kisah office romance ni memang banyak terjadi kat org yg dah kawin. Iman
kene kuat, jgn dilayan sgat perasaan tu.
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From: Adam <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
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Date: Sunday, March 05, 2000 9:28 PM
Subject: H-Net* Kisah Benar :Office Romance Yang Tak Menjadi
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>Assalamualaikum
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>Ini satu cerita dari seorang boss tentang office
>romance..unedited version...
>Kalau rajin sila la bagi komen untuk kebaikan semua...
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>Wassalam
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>Adam
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>--XXX wrote:
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>> Assalamualaikum Sdr Adam.
>>
>> Huumm...interesting juga "persoalan" yang u utarakan
>> ni. Seems that u
>> get a lot of these responses eh? Boleh buat
>> part-time marriage
>> counselling lepas ni..he..he..he.
>> Actually, I tak lah pandai sangat nak beri nasihat
>> kepada persoalan
>> yang u dah utarakan tu. But, I would like to share a
>> somewhat similar
>> story to what u've posted. I trust u to keep my
>> identity anonymous.
>> The story goes this way. I have a male colleague in
>> the office who
>> joined the company at about the same time i did. He
>> was posted to a
>> branch office while I was stationed at the head
>> office. We often met
>> during HOffice & branch monthly meetings / brain
>> storming sessions in
>> KL. At night pulak MD selalulah ajak all of us pi
>> dinner so that he got
>> to meet us in a more casual session. So, biasa
>> lah...sembang-sembang
>> pasal work, family etc.
>> Nak di jadikan cerita...macam hindustan pulak...I
>> got promoted and was
>> heading a new department also in the head office.
>> This mamat pulak minta
>> tukar wanting to be my subordinate...When my MD
>> showed me his file...I
>> thought... well, not bad juga lah...pretty
>> innovative...appraisal...for
>> 2 yrs berturut-turut more than 80%. Lagi pun when i
>> observed him during
>> our monthly sessions...he's not too bad lah. So I
>> agreed to him being my
>> subordinate. Muka..tak de lah macam Shah Rukh
>> Khan....biasa lah muka
>> melayu. Dressing pun tak lah power...shirt
>> tu...setakat Alan Delon or
>> Pierre Cardin. Tapi kengkadang colour combination
>> out...ada ka.. pakai
>> seluaq kotak-kotak & baju belang-belang. Dah lah I
>> ni astigmatism level
>> pretty high....pening kalu hari yg dia pakai baju
>> lagu tu. So...as a
>> boss I kena juga lah perbetulkan sense of dressing
>> dia, bagi tips sikit
>> on how to dress well, cara nak impress clients on
>> first meet...bukan apa
>> bila jumpaq client nanti...tak lah dia ni rasa out
>> of place sikit. I am
>> the type yg very particular about dressing, colour
>> combination, shoes
>> etc. on top of excellence on the job. Relationship
>> boss & subordinate
>> biasalah kan...kadang-kadang mamat ni kenaq tibai
>> juga lah dgn i...bila
>> masa dok buat kerja merapu tu...tapi kalu time yg
>> dia dok buat bagus
>> tu...i puji juga lah. He deserved it....I have no
>> problems in
>> recognizing his work. I work pretty well with
>> him...most of the times he
>> understands what I need where work is concern. Kami
>> ada juga lah pi
>> outstation sama utk audit the brances. Dah tu kalu
>> nak bawak staff
>> perempuan...macam-macam cerita terpaksa dengar
>> dulu...I breast-feeding
>> baby lah...my mother in law is coming to town
>> lah...my husband cannot
>> sleep alone lah ...u name it...i've heard them
>> all!!! So..tak dak lain
>> pilihan....bawak lah si mamat ni.
>> Soo...nak jadi cerita....bila we dah agak kerap pi
>> outstation sama...pi
>> jumpaq client sama...ramai lah orang
>> speculate....macam KLSE pulak
>> dah...I tak kisah...my relationship with him
>> STRICTLY professional. Of
>> course I'm married and I have two beautiful
>> children. My husband is also
>> pretty successfull in his engineering career. Mamat
>> ni dah berkahwin
>> juga lah...ada anak seorang. His wife is a school
>> teacher. Ok lah nice
>> lady. Rupa nak da lah apa yg kurang. Selalu pakai
>> baju kurung bertudung.
>> He has met my husband at company dinners & my open
>> house. I have also
>> met his wife at the clinic once. Termalu-malu juga
>> lah...yelah kalu i
>> pun I would behave the same way...sama-sama ambil
>> ubat dgn suami punya
>> boss. (hey...bosses get sick too ok)
>> One fine sunny morning, he came into my office
>> wanting to speak to me
>> urgently. Masa tu..I was in the middle of a
>> discussion with the MD.
>> Lama juga lag coz' MD ni jenis yg very detailed
>> semua benda dia nak
>> tau...From inside my room I could see him pacing up
>> & down ourside.
>> Dalam hati...kesian juga ke mamat ni...apa benda lah
>> yg dia nak habaq
>> tak boleh tunggu ni. He had to wait for almost two
>> hours until he
>> finally got to see me. My MD keluaq je...dia pun
>> masuk. He looked tired
>> & troubled. I asked him..what's wrong...ada apa-apa
>> yg dah terjadi ke?
>> He said, "ADA". I asked him, "What happened....is it
>> u ke, family u ke?
>> He told me, "Something happened to me sometime
>> back...and now I really
>> dah tak boleh tahan lagi dah." Dalam kepala i lots
>> of flash thoughts ran
>> through...mamat ni sakit ke...aku dok bagi dia kerja
>> teruk sangat
>> ke....gaji dia tak cukup ke....dia nak resign dah
>> ke... Anyway, I buat
>> normal lah..and I asked him, "Cakap lah mana tau I
>> can help u ke." Dia
>> kata, "Menang lah u can help me...it's about u." I
>> confronted him and
>> said, "Why.... u cannot work with me lagi ke..have i
>> done anything
>> towards u ? " He said, "Tak...i want to tell you
>> that...I LOVE YOU!!!"
>> Haa...terkejut beruk sat....nak terpelanting coffee
>> I that moment. I
>> said to him, "What????" He said, "Betul, XXX,
>> (that's what my staff call
>> me) I have loved you from the moment we went for
>> orientation dulu tu. "
>> I dok kata, "That was a long time ago that
>> orientation...I tak perasan
>> pun u masa tu." Honest....i never knew he existed
>> back then.
>> So...di pendekkan cerita...kalu nak cerita semua
>> besok lusa pun tak
>> habis. Puas juga lah nak menasihatkan mamat ni. My
>> focus was his family
>> & his work. He complained of his wife tak pandai
>> jaga hati...tak tau
>> pakai baju coordinated like me...tak tau
>> drive...serba serbi tak tau
>> lah. Lepas tu marriage dia ni arranged marriage.
>> Wowo..ini sudah kes
>> berat. Banyak lah curahan perasaan yg di curah kan
>> kepada i....for the
>> first time in my life...I really tak tau nak buat
>> macamana. Well, he's a
>> nice mamat...kalu nak terus-terus reject him...tak
>> ke berkecai lebur
>> hati dia. Kalu nak di...sambut perasaan
>> nya...issh...mengarut lah....pak
>> cik kat rumah tu nak pi letak mana & wife dia nak
>> hantaq mana...dah tu
>> company policy...memang tak bagi employees in the
>> same dept kahwin. So
>> kalu seorang kenaq beralah...minta tukaq ke...quit
>> ke....ishhhhh ini
>> betul-betul dah bab mengarut. Hari-hari I dok
>> councelling dia...focus on
>> your wife...bagi dia ideas...macamana nak bercinta
>> dgn wife dia pulak.
>> Yang tak best nya tu...bila kita bagi dia
>> ideas...dia dok kata...u
>> selalu ke dok buat gini dgn "pak cik" u.
>> Kureeeng...punya orang...kita
>> nak tolong dia...dia pulak...berangan dgn kita.
>> Disamping itu...i always
>> nasihat dia....jangan tinggal his prayers...pi surau
>> malam-malam
>> jumaat...baca yassin...mengaji quran....minta
>> petunjuk dari tuhan.
>> Berdoa agar kita tak terpedaya oleh godaan
>> syaitan....
>> Moral of the story is...do not under estimate work
>> relationships. We
>> spend 8 hrs or more at work...tu tak kira yg
>> outstation & working late
>> lagi.
>> How much time do we actually spend at home with our
>> husbands or wives?
>> Akibat nya yg kat office tu jadik lebih desirable
>> dari yg di rumah. Tak
>> kisah lah yg educated ke tidak...samada clerk ke,
>> executive ke, GM ke,
>> secretary ke....semua nya boleh tergoda. Jadi
>> sebelum berlarutan...talk
>> to some one...it's not easy though. Bab-bab perasaan
>> ni....jangan
>> main-main daaa.
>> Pasangan wife cun & husband handsome dan income
>> stable tak semestinya
>> menjanjikan kebahagian keakhir hayat. Godaan banyak.
>> Yang pakai baju
>> body hugging...yang dressing smart...yang bau after
>> shave
>> mengancam...... semua ada. Biasa lah..bila dah lama
>> kahwin tu..."zest"
>> nya berkurangan. Kalu kat office ni...discussions
>> nya in a more relaxed
>> environment...ada times nya heated up...ada time nya
>> full of jokes &
>> fun. The opposite happens kat rumah tu....firm
>> decision making
>> process...go through anak-anak punya school
>> books...children's exams
>> lah.....abang complain coz' adik buangkan digimon
>> abang keluar tingkap
>> lah...
>> Jadi bila kat office tu kita lupa sat pada
>> benda-benda kat rumah ni.
>> Ha...masa-masa gini lah cinta senang nak
>> berputik....bukan cinta
>> sebenarnya....tapi INFATUATION. So be careful lah...
>> perkara ni antara
>> NAK dengan TAK NAK je.
>> Tentang mamat tu....well, masih working in the same
>> company with me. He
>> asked for a transfer and I supported his
>> application. I even spoke to my
>> MD personnally (tak lah ceritakan perasaan dia tu
>> pada i...strictly on
>> his work & his potentials in the company) We even
>> gave him a new
>> assignment. Sent him for comprehensive training. We
>> still see each
>> other. He still comes to my room for a cup of
>> coffee. Situation nya
>> sekarang ni...I have become his good buddy. Dengar
>> kabar ada girlfriend
>> baru...i don't ask much about his personal life
>> unless dia sendiri yg
>> beritau. Kira kan nasib baik jugalah coz' he could
>> be saved and he's
>> much happier now and I feel happy for him too....
>>
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