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There are women out there who make the wrong choices when it comes to men. Those men who only enjoy dating and not are serious to take the relationship to the next level should not be approached in the first place if you are looking for a long-term relationship. But why do women look for these types of men? What is it that makes them too marketable and interesting? Well, for starters, women are generally attracted to guys that are brusque and of similar qualities simply because it's appealing by nature. A tough, bad boy type of guy exudes strength and roughness that is irresistible to most women. However, men like these are the ones who don't usually commit and can't last a long-term relationship because it's their mentality. Men who do commit might be a little difficult to find because most of the time they are taken and committed to someone else. The tendency for some women is to look for someone that they can be with even if there are a lot of risks involved. The hopes of changing the guy's attitude towards love and relationships are almost always futile, but some women will try so hard to do so for the sake of keeping him. This is an exhausting and most of the time heart-breaking when things don't end up as you planned. You will need to give way to this guy most of the time because you are holding too much to a relationship that doesn't work well in the first place. So how can you avoid getting caught with the wrong guy then? If you are in a current relationship with the wrong guy, and you feel unhappy and discontented with it, you should confront yourself and not the guy. You let yourself in into this relationship in the first place and it's already taking its toll on you. You can start by telling your guy that you need time for yourself because you need to sort things out. If he understands you he'll be happy to give you the time you need. But you should be aware, though, that he could only be waiting for you to open up the issue so he too can have time to rethink things. If you're not in a situation with a wrong guy and you're single but worrying and thinking if you'll end up with the wrong one again, it's best if you think positively with your current status. Being single and still looking gives you an opportunity to get to know people. Acting desperately and wishing for a guy to come to your life right away won't help. You should assess your behavior in the past relationships that you've had and you must stop the bad pattern of having relationships with the wrong man. This isn't healthy especially if you always end up looking and feeling miserable one relationship after the other. This isn't to say that you should change your standards beyond the reach of regular, boy-next-door type of men, but this is to put a little quality on the men you are looking for. Simply put, try to search for a guy who will meet your standards but won't hurt you emotionally. A guy who can make you happy despite of difficulties and challenges is better than a guy who is only there because of the physical satisfaction that you can give him. Sex can be a healthy thing in a relationship, but it's not the core requisite because love and understanding and all others are essential to keep a harmonious relationship. A good guy has positive attitude, caring, passionate, devoted and loyal, committed and communicative [among many other good traits]. He listens to your problems and happy thoughts and will be very supportive and encouraging no matter the situation. Don't think that it's impossible to know a guy who is positive and good overall. Not all good men are taken; they might be just like you who are having troubles keeping a relationship with a wrong woman. If you do meet someone who jives with your personality, take it slow. Get to know him better, know his background and be available for the taking. If he likes you, he'll do his share of research and wooing. Let him do that and enjoy the experience because in the end, the relationship will be more worthwhile and worthy of all the good and bad times. Harrison Fray is an experienced and expert wedding planner who specializes in groomsmen gifts and wedding gifts buying. His advice can help you to buy bridesmaid gifts cheaply but with unique style. Drop by http://www.goweddinggifts.com/ to see what Harrison recommends. ------------------ ARTICLE END ------------------ [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
