>>> What if he tries it again?   V

It will depend entirely on how he does it and under what circumstances.  If I 
got a horse 
with a known biting problem, I'd try to figure out what he's saying, but I 
still wouldn't 
tolerate it.   Tivar used to bite at the stirrups fairly aggressively when he 
first came 
here two years ago, and rather than fight it, we stopped riding him and tried 
to figure 
out what he was saying.  (His problem turned out to be anxiety from past 
training, coupled 
with ulcers.)   That does NOT sound like what Orri was doing though - did you 
sense any 
frustration or tension in what he was doing?  Just watch him.  If he was 
contrite and 
loving afterwards, he probably won't try it again.  He probably just misjudged 
where "the 
line" is, and inadvertently crossed it, probably in a playing/grooming sense.  
And...be 
sure to watch his body language.  Many times you can simply lift a finger to 
signal 
"enough" before the horse gets to that point.

BTW, I let my horses touch me.  Some people don't allow what I allow.  I like 
for my 
horses to trust me, and I like for them to show affection.  I still draw a 
line, and they 
know where it is.  Enforcing "the line" doesn't have to be dramatic.   I don't 
think it is 
so critical WHERE the line is drawn so much as the consistency with which you 
enforce it 
and that you enforce it with respect and affection.


Karen Thomas, NC

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