Salaam aley kum warahmahtullah I thought its just better to gather all the questions into one mail n reply to 'em accordingly..... I shud have been more clear when i started this thread. I shud have mentioned that "Are you an ideal Muslimah? if yes, will you allow your husband to marry two more wives PROVIDED THAT HE IS AN IDEAL HUSBAND TO."
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"My three daughters-in-law are jobless. One of them bakes cakes and sells them," Saida said. "The others help neighbors clean their houses and gets paid for it. I am retired myself. My pension is very small -- only 17,000 soums [$17] a month. But they give me only half of my pension. The other half goes for utilities, which I can't afford to pay otherwise."
Surat Ikramov, who heads the nongovernmental organization Center for Human Rights Initiative, Ikramov said that, despite the obstacles, it is the women of Uzbekistan who fight most assionately for the rights of their imprisoned relatives.
"In 99 percent of cases, the mothers or wives [of convicts] seek our help," Ikramov said. "There are almost no fathers or brothers [who do so]. I believe it is because of the fear they have. I asked several men about this, and they openly admitted they were scared. They think officials will be less cruel toward women than men."
In Uzbekistan, women have also been more active in campaigning against the death penalty. Tamara Chikunova is a founder of the nongovernmental organization Mothers Against the Death Penalty and Torture. She started her campaign after her son Dmitrii was executed in 2000.
Saida said that the hardest thing for her is to answer her grandchildren's questions about the future. "The kids are growing up with negative feelings toward the government," Saida said. "They ask me why their fathers are in prison. The other day, my 4-year-old grandson asked me: 'Granny, they imprisoned daddy. What are they going to do to us?' I said, 'They are not going to do anything to you.' And he said: 'I don't want to be imprisoned.'" It has been five years since Saida's two sons were imprisoned. There are 12 years left on their sentences. Saida said she fears she might not live long enough to see their release.
What they do to Members of Hizb ut Tahrir in Prisons
I can give you more proff of Muslim Men being tortured in large scale than Muslim women. For instance, the MOSTt people who died in iraq war are men and kids. same thing in Chechnya, many muslim men joined the mujahideen groups and got killed, such was the case with taliban, mujahideen groups in kashmir, albania, Bosnia, Kosovo, India, Uzbekistan, Falesteen, Egypt and other countries.
Leaving many MUSLIM women on their own without having ANY WALI or guardian to look after them. thus, the population of men has sharply decreased in contrast to pupolation of muslim women.
O Sisters in ISLAM, they are your sisters too, dont you want them to seek the pleasure of allah in a same way as your seekin i.e thru marriage.
The question is not abot Lustful brothers and Jealous sisters, its about Making this deen of Allah supreme and seeking his pleasure as one United Ummah.
My SISTERS in ISLAM please think about this. REALLY, I beg you, just think about this over and take your time and reply and then tell me that Isn;t your job is to approve your husband, in marrying another women in Islam.
if they are 25 womena and 5 men. if the ratio was divided on 1:1 basis, then who is goin to marry the rest of 20 women.? they cud be your sisters, your mothers? dont you want to be happy and settled down and seek pleasure of allah thur Marriage as you are seeking Allah's Pleasure. Is Lust of brothers and Jealous of sisters is more important that Seeking allah's pleasures.
--- cahaya malam <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote: > what is your aim to marry many wives? lust, sunnah or what?... .
(Shahih Bukhari 1.3. 81) Volume 1, Book 3, Number 81: Narrated Anas: From among the portents of the Hour are (the following): 1. Religious knowledge will decrease (by the death of religious learned men). 2. Religious ignorance will prevail. 3. There will be prevalence of open illegal sexual intercourse. 4. Women will increase in number and men will decrease in number so much so that fifty women will be looked after by one man." In Uzbekistan, the regime have killed so many MUSLIM MEN that population of women is almost 3 times more than that of men. addition to this, the regime have also banned Polygomy. this has held to muslim women protesting in uzbekistan against such policies. http://www.khilafah.com/home/category.php?DocumentID=1990&TagID=2 Uzbekistan Cracks Down on WOMEN Protests http://www.khilafah.com/home/category.php?DocumentID=1860&TagID=2 >
so......? in what type you are, brothers....? > and my question....IF YOU ARE AN IDEAL MUSLIM, WILL YOU MARRY OLDER OLDER, POOR > AND NOT BEAUTIFUL WIDOWS AS YOUR WIVES TO FEED THEIR YATEEMS?
Yes I wil marry any one if i m Financially Healthy. INSHALLAH. I wil marry even a blind or deaf Muslima, i dont care. to me her IMAAN is more beautiful than her looks, she is my armous, she is my LIBAS, My Respect and my Honour.
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > first...please ask yourself if you are the perfect Muslim Man ? (i.e > attributes like the Prophet (SAW) and his Sahabah, (Raa), treating their wives the > way > they did, etc ) > > then we can go on from there....
I cant say that I m an ideal Muslim. its not upto me and you to judge a Fellow Muslims imaan, its only upto Allah. however, if i were to marry two or more wives, i wud for be fair to my wife. I wud consult with HER on this issue. and wil be fair towards my other wives as well. INSHALLAH.
iAllah ill be happy to see my future husband to have a cowife, his happiness is my happiness, as long he knows his responsibilities and to be just to all of his wives, iAllah everything goes well, bt it is all depends on wat types of women he is going to married, if she is a pious women, i dont think there will be a problem, wat important to be fair, the wives must live in separated houses, staying in the same house, i cant imagine it, i am a jealouse person, he must know well my sensitivity too, mark the word "just" there? he must be just both physically, spiritualy, if he is unable to do so (live in separate house) then stop dreaming
Please take time and think abot it. I was trying to find the articles on Muslim women who were protesting AGAINST polygamy laws in Uzbekistan adn other Muslim countries, that was i was deleyed in replying these quries. My Apologies.
Just like one of the sisters from Indonesia asked me "wil you marry older women and take care of their yateems.? i m ready to marry them, but are the sisters willing to approve their husband to marry them. ? cus of war many muslim women have lost their husbands and left behind their progeny,, if you one of those sisters then dont you want some to marry you and take care of your affairs.
again, this is not about Men and Women, Lust or Jealousy, its about Seeking Pleasure of Allah. and one of the ways is by marrying more wives, cus in conditions like wats happening to muslim women in uzbekistan n iraq, the Polygamy becomes the basis for the thinking and the action rather than being a mere subject.
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