I did developed a system though that satisfied me and helped DH learn to
declutter. I would put all his stuff that I didn't think should be in that
room (like tools in the living room, engine oil in the kitchen, bike bits in
the bedroom etc) into a container and after he had finished his evening meal
I would give it to him and suggest he put it away.
I will try that trick too .... especially as I have a few boxes to use now !!!!
Elaine
