Brenda,
I'm so sorry that you are having concern about your cousin and friend right
now. I don't want to call for any censorship of posts here, but I also wish
we could have a moratorium on the debates for just a little bit. It is more
important for us to be sharing our stories and grief right now. As for
those debates, let me say that I have affection and care for pretty much
everyone concerned. I could not take sides in their debates if I wanted to
because I have privately agreed with many points made by ALL sides in it.
Please let's all try more to respect each other (meaning all listmembers) as
individuals here. Please let's try to check our egos at the door for just a
few days, if possible.
The firsthand accounts of those are close to this abomination have helped me
and I think others, so much. Please keep talking - we need to talk about
this from personal viewpoints as we go through the shock and mourning
process. .
Kakki
