Colin, Why do you think people think you attacking them? I'm seriously just trying to understand and follow some of the things you and Debra have written. I'm not trying to be deliberately obtuse - the understanding of everything you have written does not come automatically to me.
I didn't mean to imply you or Debra were doing what I call "guilt trips." I would argue that the evoking of a sense guilt about something simply means to me a prompting of conscience when one has taken some action that is hurtful in some way, or has not acted on something for which they are responsible. I completely agree people shouldn't have false guilt (thereby being guilt-tripped) over something they really cannot control or do anything to change. The best they can do is to note it and hope that the situation improves in the future. Kakki
