> From: "deudeuhhartono" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> Ayeuna muncul pananya, kumaha cenah pami di pang salingkuhkeun?,
Haturan Kang Deudeuh. Kang, perkara salingkuh (jajan atawa nyate) teu aya
hubunganana jeung nyandung, sanajan sarua urusanana jeung syahwat. Sataun
katukang Mahkamah Kontitusi nolak ngabatalkeun UU Perkawinan 1974 anu
digugat ku salah saurang warga nagara Indonesia anu hayang bebas nyandung,
teu kudu aya izin ti pamajikan nu tiheula. Salah sahiji alesan nu ngaguguat
CENAH CEUK MANEHNA, NYANDUNG teh bisa ngurangan prostitusi jeung salingkuh.
Pak Hakim menta bukti, mana datana nu daratang ka tempat prostitusi atawa
salingkuh teh nu monogami/teu nyandung. Nu ngagugat teu bisa nyodorkeun
bukti saeutik-eutik acan, ukur prasangka manehna wungkul. Teu aya jaminan nu
nyandung teu ngalakukeun salingkuh atawa tara "angkat" ka tempat prostitusi.
Prasangka sakapeung nutupan fakta nu sabenerna. Kulanataran nyandung
meunang, der aya prasangka awewe leuwih loba ti lalaki, malah aya nu boga
prasangka extreem 1 lalaki banding 4 awewe. Padahal data statistik
nunjukkeun babandingana awewe jeung lalaki teh ampir 1:1. Malah di nagara
Teluk (Arab Suadi, UEA, kuwait) mah surplus lalaki, tepi ka aya nagara nu
babandinganan 160 lalaki : 100 urang awewe.
Tapi boga prasangka lain teu meunang, eta mah hak. Kuring oge boga
prasangka, lalaki nu boga pamajikan leuwih ti hiji, LEUWIH LOBA KAMUNGKINAN
NGALAKUKEUN SALINGKUH/ JAJAN tinimbang lalaki nu monogami. Buktina? Nyaeta
prasangka .....teu boga bukti!
Baktos,
WALUYA
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