After a 15 year relationship ended and then after that prostate cancer surgery that made me unable to maintain or achieve a full erection, at 66 I wanted to continue some sexual relations. Even a one way was better than nothing. On hook-up sites I used my real age and got no response. I have taken care of myself and don't look my age so I used 57 as my age and get some action. Now at 70, I have more problem that I'm a total bottom, when I have to tell them that, many lose all interest. Amazing how many 50, 60 year olds want a 20 to 30 year old.
On Mon, Aug 2, 2010 at 4:16 PM, <[email protected]> wrote: > I'm not so sure that it is more difficult. What I think happens is that > too many of us fail to change as we age. For example, I have friends who > are now in their 50's and 60's, who have and let's be honest, put on weight > and are still looking for 20 to 30 year olds, who are going to the "cha-cha" > palaces and dancing the night away. You know how we look out on the dance > floor in our 50's and 60's next to the 20 and 30 somethings. It's not > pretty. I will be the first to say that "ageism" may be an issue for us in > the gay culture. That is not to say that there are not those younger men > who appreciate the finer qualities of age, wisdom and maturity. But let's > face it, I don't think they are in abundance and I might add, were you > looking at 60 year old men when you were in your 20's? I don't think so, I > know I wasn't. > > Hopefully as we age, our attitudes, our outlook on life and some of the > values we hold near and dear, rise to the level of our maturity. This > includes seeking out relationships with men closer to our own age. I see > all too often, efforts to relive our youth through the young. It may be > desirable, but not very practical or likely. I have found that I prefer men > who are at least 50 years or older. They are closer to my age, and I feel I > have more in common with them than I do the 20 and 30 somethings. > > I also believe that if we looked more in our own age range, we will find > lots of sex, lots of it. Because we are all out there looking. Its time we > start looking at each other. We just need to change our way of viewing > relationships, define what we want out of it and match those desires to the > available pool. > > A few thoughts..... > > cooltroy4u > > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Rasslin Bear" <[email protected]> > To: [email protected], [email protected], > [email protected], "gay-orgies" < > [email protected]>, [email protected], > [email protected], [email protected], > [email protected], [email protected], > "male_orbs" <[email protected]>, [email protected], > [email protected], [email protected] > Sent: Monday, August 2, 2010 10:27:39 AM > Subject: AUGUST DISCUSSION TOPIC > > *OK guys before I give you the topic let me remind you this is a CIVIL > discussion - not a forum for personal attacks. If someone says something > you disagree with - be polite. If your tired if the discussion - do not > open the posts. Be polite and others will be polite to you. > > The topic this month was submitted by DONSPORT to the bears group, but it > intrigued me so much I decided to use it in all the gay groups. The topic > is - WHY DOES IT GET HARDER T FIND SEX AS WE GET OLDER. > > Now discuss - but politely. > * > -- > Nothing motivates a man more than to see his boss putting in an honest > day's work. > > -- > You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups > "HOT ORIENTAL -MEN" group. > To post to this group, send email to [email protected]. > To unsubscribe from this group, send email to > [email protected]<hot-oriental--men%[email protected]> > . > For more options, visit this group at > http://groups.google.com/group/hot-oriental--men?hl=en. >
