In one family I am researching there are six children. The parents always told everyone that they were married two years before their actual marriage date and everyone always thought all their children were their biological children. Well everyone in the immediate family thought that anyway. My research uncovered anomalies in the birth dates of the children and the marriage date of the parents. The first child was 2 years old when the parents were married. The second child was born 7 months after they were married. The birth dates of the children and the Marriage date have been verified.

I have confronted the only three living relatives that would have knowledge of what happened and have three different stories.

1. The first born was biological to the mother but not the father. (Sister of the mother)
2. The first born was adopted by both parents. The second born was biological to both parents. (Sister to the father)
3. The first and second born were both adopted. (1st cousin to the mother)


Assuming I have no way of verifying any of the stories how should I represent the relationships?

One thought is that I should show all children as biological to the parents since we don't have all the facts. We really don't know for absolute certainty that any of the stories represent what really happened. After all there could've been a fourth story that both children are biological to both parents and I just haven't heard it because anyone who "knew" is not available to tell.

The "family" says just put all children in as biological and let the readers draw their own conclusions from the dates since any commentary may be incorrect unless I can come up with documentation to for the commentary.

What to do? What to do?

Gordon

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There are genealogists and there are family historians - probably both types
will see your data.


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