Hi, On 3/27/21 1:08 AM, Luke Kenneth Casson Leighton wrote:
On Saturday, March 27, 2021, [1]<[1][email protected]> wrote: From: Deb Nicholson [2]<[2][email protected]> Well, it's disappointing but not surprising that a call for improving the way people are treated within the free software movement is being seen by some on this list as "hateful" or somehow in "opposition to free software." I honestly don't see how creating a haven for sexist behavior and disrespect can lead to the movement's growth, but maybe I'm mistaken in thinking that we all want that growth. Deb: this response is resigned self-victimisation and conflation of unrelated points rolled into one. it is a sufficiently well recognised behavioural pattern as part of conflict that CRNHQ has a special section on it, "Cooperative Power" [3][3]https://www.crnhq.org/cr-kit/ Can I recommend that you read that for insights because whilst it is clear that, like all of us here, you seek to further Software Freedom, you are engaging in "Victim" patterns that are causing division amongst your peers, rather than creating the collaborative and welcoming environment that you and all here would clearly love to see. I trust that you will give this some thought and due attention for future interactions with others who share the same Software Freedom goals. Luke: this response is patronizing and an example of a failure to exercise empathy and assume an appropriate level of assertiveness in dialogue. These are sufficiently well-recognized behavioral patterns as part of conflict that CRNHQ has special sections on them, called "Empathy" and "Appropriate Assertiveness" [1] [4]https://www.crnhq.org/cr-kit/#empathy [2] [5]https://www.crnhq.org/cr-kit/#assertiveness Can I recommend that you read that for insights, because whilst it is clear that, like all of us here, you seek to further Software Freedom, you are engaging in "Inappropriate Assertiveness" patterns that are causing division amongst your peers, rather than creating the collaborative and welcoming environment that you and all here would clearly love to see. I trust that you will give this some thought and due attention for future interactions with others who share the same Software Freedom goals. Much respect, ~m References 1. mailto:[1][email protected] 2. mailto:[2][email protected] 3. https://www.crnhq.org/cr-kit/ 4. https://www.crnhq.org/cr-kit/#empathy 5. https://www.crnhq.org/cr-kit/#assertiveness
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